another pregnancy

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It has been a long time since I posted. My prolapses have improved since learning of the posture. I am so thankful to have found this site before I let a doctor touch me. I have universal prolapses but I think the rectocele bothers me the most and the bulge of course. I really only have problems when I don't eat enough fiber or drink enough water. My son is now 6 months old and I do think once I wean him it will get even better. That is what happened with my first son, although I had only minor prolapses then. What I wanted is some feedback from all you ladies about another baby? Especially, Jane, as I know you just went through this. I have 2 beautiful boys but feel a deep need to try for a girl. Would this totally destroy my body??? I eat very healthy, mostly organic, costs us a fortune but I know it is worth it. I do still eat lean, local, grassfed meat. Oh, I am 35 as well. Any feedback would be appreciated. I just ordered the video so I am anxious to get it.

Sincerely,
New Mom Y

It has been eight weeks since the birth of my third child. I feel very normal. So normal, in fact, that I am considering a fourth child. I will be 34 in April, and expect if I have another child that I would do so in about two years. I was terrified when I discovered I was pregnant with his third child since I discovered prolapse. It is the wreck to seal (a.ka. rectocele -- I am using Dragon naturally speaking to write this and it obviously has never heard of prolapse lol!) That bothers me the most and like most women my diet affects it the most. I can feel it most when I bend over, which is yet another reminder to squat. When I need to pick stuff up or reach the ground. I have to say that even if prolapse would worsen a child is worth it.

Thank you so much Jane. I think another child would be worth it as well. I am not looking forward to being pregnant at 37 (if I wait 2 years) but I think if I can workout consistently and work on my attitude, I will be okay with the prolapses. I had my last boy at home and it was wonderful. I would love to do that again. Thanks for letting me know it is possible. I hope you will share if you go for number 4 too. Did you have a lot of help when your baby was born? I think that will be the most challenging part. The first year is pretty intense. My youngest is 6 months and all over. He still likes to nurse a lot too. I just have to stay fit so I have the energy to keep up with them! I figure this will keep me young!
Sincerely,
New Mom Y

Mylinda
Hello from Sweden.
I am an American living in Sweden . I have a three sons. The youngest baby boy was born last July. I had prolapse after the birth of all three babies. The first one took the longest to get over. The second only a year and a half I felt like I was healed and boom the first time I had sex I was pregnant. I was not so happy more shocked. I was a little upset because I had a little prolapse during my second pregnancy and was not sure what to expect . I did it no trouble throughout my third pregnancy just a bit of pressure during the last month. Now I have three beautiful boys and like the lady that replied to your post. I think it is worth it to hold that baby in your arms worth all the trouble you might experience afterwards. I was scheduled for surgery and I saw this website. I cancelled my surgery. I have not bought the book or video but I believe I will get better . I only have prolapse during my menstration. That is a plus after my other births it was a it was a constant problem.
Good luck with your baby.
Mylinda