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Hello I am Alicia . I have a blader prolapse. I have told to do the kegal exersise. It is making this sress incontince worse. Before I started doing these i had urge incontitnce,and a bit of stress incontince. Does the exercise work for a bladder prolaspe. I found that I cant stand for more than5 min before wetting my pants not just a bit ,I cant control it.. I have been told that If the exercise dont work I will have to have the bladder and pevic floor repaired or have a hysterectomy. Which one would be the best. Should I carry on with the excersies will they work for a prolaspe bladder or is it waist of time doing them. The blader prolapse I can feel just near the opening of the vagnia. Does the prolase get bigger very quickly mine seems to be doing that. I dont know how long I have had the the prolapse,but I have have the urge incontenine for about three years. the stress incontince about a year . the wetting the pants thing when standing strated when I started the the kegal excersises.All this is affecting my every day life.I cant even take the dog a walk without wetting myself. I am find this very stresfull and is making me very unhappy. Is the op the only way to deal with this .
please help

Check out what Christine has to say about Kegels:

http://www.wholewoman.com/forum/node/2515

http://www.wholewoman.com/forum/node/2114

Why don't you stop doing the kegels for while since what you are doing is making your situation so much worse? Then maybe try again with Christine's suggestions after your bladder settles down a bit.

Have you looked into bladder training to help deal with the urge incontinence?

Hi Alicia

Wholewoman posture is the most important part of this work. I think the other suggestions are also worth following up. I suggest that you set about realigning your body, so that the bladder is further forward, better supported on your pubic bone, and not stressed by hanging backwards so far.

In Wholewoman posture there is no need to contract the pelvic floor muscles because the repositioning of the pelvic bones in WW posture stretches these muslces out to their functional, working length, so they don't sag, and they are not tight, so you don't need to make them firmer. When they are at their functional length you are exercising them and keeping them active with everyday movements.

In WW posture intraabdominal forces, that are generated as we breathe and move, are directed sideways onto the anterior vaginal wall, closing it up flat, instead of straight down the vagina, pushing your bladder straight down the vagina.

It might take you a while to get the hang of WW posture, but that is what is going to reposition your bladder so that your body structure works to maintain continence, instead of making it worse.

Read the FAQ's on the main site, then come back with more questions.

Cheers

Louise

I agree with Louise--read the FAQ's, scan the posts, and put incontinence into the search engine. You will get many good discussions on dealing with it. Christine has a few exercises going back a while now posted on here that she has recommended to people for dealing with incontinence, as well as all on the DVD.
Definately if the stress incontinence is new since starting kegels, give your body a break and see what happens. How many a day have you been doing? many physios recommend tons, which only tire the muscles that are not made for heavy exercises...

By following the posture, and other diet / lifestyle changes you should notice changes. Prolapses stabilise, and often reverse in many women here. avoid constipation like the plague. Avoid tight clothes that press on your pelvis.

and ask ask away...