When I first “cracked the code” on stabilizing and reversing prolapse, and wrote and published Saving the Whole Woman, I set up this forum. While I had finally gotten my own severe uterine prolapse under control with the knowledge I had gained, I didn’t actually know if I could teach other women to do for themselves what I had done for my condition.
So I just started teaching women on this forum. Within weeks, the women started writing back, “It’s working! I can feel the difference!”
From that moment on, the forum became the hub of the Whole Woman Community. Unfortunately, spammers also discovered the forum, along with the thousands of women we had been helping. The level of spamming became so intolerable and time-consuming, we regretfully took the forum down.
Technology never sleeps, however, and we have better tools today for controlling spam than we did just a few years ago. So I am very excited and pleased to bring the forum back online.
If you are already a registered user you may now log in and post. If you have lost your password, just click the request new password tab and follow the directions.
Please review and agree to the disclaimer and the forum rules. Our moderators will remove any posts that are promotional or otherwise fail to meet our guidelines and will block repeat offenders.
Remember, the forum is here for two reasons. First, to get your questions answered by other women who have knowledge and experience to share. Second, it is the place to share your results and successes. Your stories will help other women learn that Whole Woman is what they need.
Whether you’re an old friend or a new acquaintance, welcome! The Whole Woman forum is a place where you can make a difference in your own life and the lives of thousands of women around the world!
Best wishes,
Christine Kent
Founder
Whole Woman
want2know
September 19, 2013 - 8:03pm
Permalink
I Had That Type of Pain
with my period from the time I was 12 !!!
I suffered with it until I was 19. For my first job, I needed a physical examination. When the (female) doctor found out that I had such pain with my periods, she prescribed a pain-killer and she also advised me to take it whenever I thought my period was coming.
One thing about this was that I found that I could at least manage the pain.
What I have discovered since though, is that getting regular daily exercise (1-hour walk at a fast pace) reduces the pain. Also -- staying away from deep-fried foods and eating more fruits and vegetables helps. When my system is clearing regularly, it helps.
I don't think it's a relaxant they need .... it's the pain and the inflammation that cause the upset stomach.
I may take a pain-killer with an anti-inflammatory to start with, but I usually just eat foods that are easy to digest on the first couple of days of my period. eg. toast ... chicken .... And I stay away from cooked eggs and fresh fruits and vegetables on those days
I hope this helps.
:-)
w2k
Aussie Soul Sister
September 19, 2013 - 9:02pm
Permalink
W2K
Dear W2K,
Thankyou for sharing your experience.
It is very helpful to have someone with a balanced view, as I know the pain can be very debilitating.
I have not had it as badly as my girls I don't think, though I remember some really off days.
You have been a great help,
(((hugs))) &
Best Wishes
Aussie Soul Sister
want2know
September 19, 2013 - 10:11pm
Permalink
I'm Happy To Help
All through school, from grade 6 on ... I missed 1 full day a month ... unless, of course, it started on the weekend.
As I look back on it, I realize how inactive I was ... and when I began regular exercise of any kind, things seemed to be better. I also learned what foods to eat and what foods to avoid.
:-)
w2k
Surviving60
September 20, 2013 - 4:48am
Permalink
Heavy duty pain stuff
I had wretched periods in my teens, and my doctor put me on codeine! Probably a common response in the 1960's. Honestly, at the time, it kept me functioning (Midol, needless to say, didn't make a dent!). I'm not sure what I would have done if my daughter had it as bad as I did. Fortunately she made it through her first decade of periods with only ibuprofen. Not great either, but to be honest, I don't know what else there was to offer. As Soul Sis points out - we don't have control over our girls even if they are still living at home. We look for the easiest and least harmful solutions to whatever life sends our way. Raising teens, one feels perpetually in crisis mode or on the verge. I'm grateful to have survived it but have many regrets about things I failed to do while I still had their attention. - Surviving
Bebe
September 20, 2013 - 9:14pm
Permalink
Dear Aussie Soul Sister,
You might look into Wild Yam and Feverfew. The Wild Yam is used for PMS and menopausal pain, the Feverfew for headache. There's much more to be found about them online so I won't go into it here. I found them for my daughter who had much more painful periods than I with accompanying headache. She found some relief and used them until she went on the pill. I still keep Feverfew around for headaches and my husband takes Wild Yam because the body converts it to DHEA.
Just a suggestion of something to look at other than prescription drugs.
fab
September 21, 2013 - 4:00am
Permalink
aussie oi
The big problem I remember with periods (definitely in the mists of time at my age now) was constipation. It was like all systems stopped for a few days until the period came. So what you had was not just period pain but also wind pain and maybe a headache and also nausea. I remember one time an older friend suggested Milk of Magnesium (which is magnesium hydroxide) and I certainly had good effect from taking that for a few months. I took it after the symptoms arose rather than before like you would otherwise as a preventative (still, I hardly knew anything then, no-one talked about these things, they were all so seemingly wise and silent, or stoic victims of an affliction far worse than your own talked about briefly in whispers and a lot of women did not have problems at period time, and scorned any hint that for some it would be otherwise, I mean what could you be thinking?; I think these latter became our Australian feminists). After a few months though I found the milk of magnesium had lost its laxative effect for me and so it was back to the drawing board, but I never did solve the problem which of course may have a lot to do with where I am today prolapse wise. I have more recently discovered that milk of magnesium can carry away the body’s potassium so that may be the explanation of its ceasing to work for the body needs potassium for the good stool. I am not familiar with your magnesium chelate Soul Sister, but I know you would have chosen it for good reason. Apart from that, if the girls can make sure they have the vitamin C, avoiding bad fats (this is perhaps not so easy to do if they are having a carton of chips for lunch), potassium, magnesium and calcium everyday which you know full well about. Another possibility is a concentration on regularity, up to period time so that a few days’ constipation at period time might not be so uncomfortable. As for the period pain itself, one day a month of panadol should not be too much of a risk. But I defer to what you think on that. And for the contraceptive being to do for pimples and period pain, just suss out if there are any likely young men on the horizon before you veto that one. Yes, I know at seventeen, but the world has evolved, and young people are still great risk takers and know so much more than previous generations, and are not likely to listen to caution although still wanting mum’s love and ok, and they have more information and technologically advanced pills and whatevers than we ever had, heck it all started with my generation back in the late fifties with the telephone and it hasn’t slackened off; peer pressure. Your wisdom is needed mum.
Aussie Soul Sister
September 21, 2013 - 7:50am
Permalink
Hi to everyone who posted,
Hi to everyone who posted, and many thanks for all your pearls of wisdom,
fab - I took your advice about the Magnesium supplement and recently tried to find one that didn't contain Magnesium aspartate as it is an excitotoxin. I found one that didn't have aspartate in it but I looked up the source of my information, and apparently Magnesium Chloride is the one I should be looking for. However I'm just pleased to find one that hasn't any aspartate.
Regularity is not an issue with my girls relating to menstrual pain, and one at least is listening to me about posture, and working out what works for her with her diet, I found out today...
Bebe - I will look into Feverfew - I have heard of it before & it looks promising.
Best wishes,
(((hugs)))
Aussie Soul Sister