When I first “cracked the code” on stabilizing and reversing prolapse, and wrote and published Saving the Whole Woman, I set up this forum. While I had finally gotten my own severe uterine prolapse under control with the knowledge I had gained, I didn’t actually know if I could teach other women to do for themselves what I had done for my condition.
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fab
January 17, 2014 - 4:01pm
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Wow Bridge
So many things going through your mind. (1) I had prolapse before I broke my hip, it was severe already and the bone break meant I was not moving that leg (naturally) and so it was hard to return the prolapsed organs (mostly uterine in my case) to its right position. (2) I took senna for some months after my operation, I don't think it helps the prolapse mainly because its effectiveness was somewhat like a dose of IBS in that it fluctuated from constipation to diarrhea. (3) Yes, not being able to walk in proper posture (as described by WW) certainly does not help the prolapse at all. I found it such a relief once I was getting around in normal posture without being bent forward or propped on a stick. (4) It is more than likely that you had been prolapsing. I know when mine arrived at peri menopause, I had had it early after child birth but other than a few bouts of discomfort over the years for the most part I felt nothing of prolapse after that, and it appeared to suddenly arrive full blown one morning out of the blue. It defies logic that it in fact did so. For a doctor examining you it is easy to miss, because these pelvic organs of ours travel around a bit. But take heart that your GYN thought it mild. If you read around the site, there is lots of information and you might consider trying the WW method while you have a close look at and ponder over the implications of these treatments your doctors are suggesting for you.
BridgeOverTroub...
January 17, 2014 - 6:47pm
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"Toes above Nose"
Thanks Fab for the information about senna. I didn't actually take senna, but used the Lax Tea made by Celestial Seasonings, and another Lax tea that is out there in the grocery stores. I have never had a problem with constipation, which from the information I have read on this forum can present a problem. On my 3rd day post-op I did have motility issues, but that was from the narcotic, and not that I was constipated. I also am wondering if my prolapse condition was exacerbated by the fact that I was in bed 21 out of 24 hours for the first 3 weeks and I needed to keep my toes above my nose which entailed me propping my leg up on a package of paper towels covered with a pillow and a towel. It was fantastic for the swelling, but put a lot of pressure on my lower back because I did not move unless I had to get up to use the restroom. Even though it has been 4 months since my surgery, I'm still weak in the thigh area. I'm supposed to walk up and down hills for PT, and it takes a lot out of me just walking up a hill. I also reviewed some of the information about fire breathing, and one of the symptoms I did have after general anesthesia was that I would have a light cough after inhalation (not a hacking cough). I know that sounds minor, but it went on for over a month. I was constantly weighing the threat of throwing a clot after orthopedic surgery, and now I feel like I may have pushed myself too much to get back up and return to walking and my pelvic organs were damaged in the process.
fab
January 17, 2014 - 7:03pm
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Please Bridge
do try not to have regrets over pushing yourself too much to get back up and return to walking. Look I was up in four days. There were patients in beds around me who refused to move, used wheel chairs for weeks. You just knew they were going to be in wheel chairs for life and the demoralisation of the PT staff was palpable. Sometimes, and in certain circumstances that old adage is true that you either use it or you lose it. Most certainly the coughs don't help prolapse. Be patient with that weakness in the thigh area, give yourself two years to get it back fully. And do avoid going into the no pain no gain nonsense. If it pains rest it and try again tomorrow. As for walking up hill, I am only talking of a hip operation, but I found it best to avoid uphill walking until the thigh became stronger. Even walking up stairs appeared to make my groin ache more than it should and this directly affected my prolapse which I interpreted as a sign that that particular aspect of rehabilitation can wait. Try the WWposture, then try walking in posture and take it slow, but be consistent.
wholewomanUK
January 19, 2014 - 11:45am
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causes of pop
Hi Bridge Over Troubled Water,
I guess the simple answer to your query; could all/any of those have contributed to your prolapse - is yes it/they could have. On reflection I expect many of us, especially as we become more knowledgeable about what promotes pelvic organ prolapsed (pop), has those 'aha' moments when they think "that may have contributed to my prolapse - and that may have contributed - and that…" For some people it's a mixture of various reasons over a lifetime, for others there's a definite trigger and for others it's a mixture of the two. In any event - for all of us here - this is where we're at now and what we do next makes a significant difference health wise.
The WW approach explains pelvic organ support and pelvic organ prolapse treatment. Armed with this information, women get to know what makes things worse and what makes things better. The pelvic organs inhabit a very fluid part of the body and to some extent can move around - and things can get better or worse, depending on what you do.
The 3 cornerstones of the WW approach are: WW posture, healthy diet and never ever stringing to go to the loo whilst leaning on the toilet seat.
For more info I thoroughly recommend the book as a start and if you're interested int he WW exercises, I found the dvd's a great support.
Best os luck, wholewomanukx
BridgeOverTroub...
January 30, 2014 - 10:04am
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Still Reading
Thanks for the information fab and wholewomanuk. Of course when my prolapse was diagnosed my first thought was "why me?" The forum is wonderful for dispelling those feelings. I have been trying to use the WW posture, and I can see an improvement in my overactive bladder. Every time I went to the urologist over the past year she would do a sonogram, sometimes I would have residual urine, and sometimes not. I deduce now that the constant OAB was probably due to me not entirely emptying my bladder or the movement of my bladder into a lax position. It leaves me to ponder how many women out there are on Vesicare, Mirabegron, or Oxytrol who really have a prolapse. These medications can be prescribed by any doctor, not just a urologist. It flabbergasts me that extensive research has not been done in the area of prolapse. Over the past 35 years more women have entered the OB-GYN profession, but it seems like a lot of them have "drank the kool-ade". I need to read more of this website, but I was wondering if there is a list of GYNs or urogynecologist that advocate non-surgical interventions as opposed to surgery. There is a Women's Health Physical Therapy group nearby, and I need to contact them to see if they have anything to offer me beside kegels. I'm still in PT for my orthopedic surgery, and I do see that my legs and hips are getting stronger.
Surviving60
January 30, 2014 - 7:03pm
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OAB meds
Another member just recently commented about these medications and how women really should do some research into what they are actually taking. Women certainly get offered some great solutions to their problems, huh?
Since gyns and urogyns are all surgeons, I wouldn't look there for non-surgical solutions. PTs for the most part adhere to the medical model and traditional but incorrect concept of the pelvic floor. - Surviving
BridgeOverTroub...
February 6, 2014 - 12:02pm
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BMs
I have another question. As I stated in previous posts, I really have never had a problem with constipation. I'm not currently taking anything to stimulate bowel movements. I've been using the WW posture since I joined this forum. I notice when I use the relaxed belly posture that I end up having more BMs throughout the day. Should I be concerned about that? Is having 5 to 6 BMs during the day outside the realm of normal? I do not have diarrhea. I may be wrong, but the fact that I have no difficulty having BMs, does it mean that I probably do not have a rectocele? My urologist said I had a stage 3 to stage 4 uterine prolapse, but from what I have been reading I don't think that is right. I think that I have a cystocele. Also, from my above posts, one can read that I had major foot and ankle surgery. I have been also reading over the past couple of years that there is a procedure called Percutaneous tibial nerve stimulation. Do you think that there is a correlation between all of my post-surgery pelvic issues with the fact that they removed my tibial tendon? Thanks
Aging gracefully
February 6, 2014 - 1:16pm
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Hi Bridgeovertroub,
Hi Bridgeovertroub,
I can't say if having 5 to 6 BMs in a day is normal or not. Are they smaller? And, how long has it been going on? Have you been changing your diet also? What I do know is that I did have constipation before I started the whole woman work, and once I got the bulk of my uterus off my rectum, I ended up having the easiest time having a BM. Makes me wonder if your bowels aren't just reacting from being finally aligned in proper position along with the posture. I know it certainly did for me.
I have the more profound uterine prolapse, and it presented itself very clearly to me at the opening of my vagina. If you are unsure, give it a feel. If it is smooth and has an opening on the end, then it is your cervix. If it is a wrinkly soft spongey bulge coming from the front, it is more likely your bladder.
Hope that helps some. Maybe someone will come on that knows more about bowel movements. I would be interested too.
Surviving60
February 6, 2014 - 5:59pm
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Foot and ankle reconstruction
I definitely have a rectocele and I don't have any problem having BMs, so I would scratch that theory. I also have more (and smaller - 5 or 6 would not be unusual for me) BM's throughout my day than I used to, but I chalk that up to age, not necessarily prolapse or the posture. Can't say for sure but I am fairly certain this changed before I began posture work. If you are having bowel changes, look to your diet or to other aspects of your life that might be changing without you even realizing it....stress, exercise, etc. Menopause brought many subtle changes for me, and I consider myself lucky that they were mostly minor.
As AG says, it is not too hard to tell the difference between 'celes (which are spongy and squishy) and a protruding cervix (which is tough and muscular and has that indentation in the middle). Use the Self Exam in the book or over on the Library page (go to Resources, then Library, then use the search box for Self Exam). As to your 'cele(s), if it seems to be on the front wall, it's your bladder, and on the back wall is your rectum. I personally have not had a formal diagnosis.
As to your foot surgery - Christine might be interested in commenting on that. Everything in the body is so connected to everything else. She stresses this so much in her work, giving special attention to feet and arches. Let's keep the subject going for awhile. - Surviving
Christine
February 7, 2014 - 10:57am
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foot arches, etc.
Hi Bridge,
I don’t have anything to add to the wonderful responses you’ve received already. I would love to know the indication for your foot/ankle operation, though.
The feet and ankles are foundational to our entire moving self. The WW work encourages lots of arch and toe exercise. A healthy foot arch is the basis of hip health, and is intimately connected to the position of the pelvic organs. The lumbar curve and foot arches develop together, and they degenerate together as well. As Lindy suggested, we are whole-body systems and everything is supportive of everything else. But the lumbar spine-hip-foot arch connection is exceedingly important. Lying on your back for weeks on end would certainly aggravate a developing prolapse condition, as intraabdominal pressure literally pushes the organs backward toward the vaginal opening. Getting around after surgery probably didn’t help either, but my guess is (as others have said in this thread), you’ve probably been courting prolapse all your adult life. We all have, unless through some miracle you had been holding your body naturally.
Christine
P.S. Every year I do this work I become more disgusted and outspoken about the medical system. Gynecologists and urologists (and for Pete’s sake, urogynecologists) have absolutely nothing of healthy value to offer women. All the sonograms, pap smears, mammograms, colonoscopies, urodynamics tests, etc. etc. etc. keep a mammoth medical-pharmaceutical-industrial machine going that has nothing to do with bringing women back to health. It is a goliath that must be continuously fed in order that giant multinational corporations meet their profit margins. And what feeds the monster? Women’s bodies - bit by bit by bit.
MJH
February 7, 2014 - 7:21pm
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Numerous BMs
Hi, From my interaction with alternative medicines and practitioners, numerous ones are great I have always heard. One practitioner said that cats and dogs do just that. He felt that it was healthier.
BridgeOverTroub...
February 11, 2014 - 1:01pm
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BMs 'again'
Dear Aging Gracefully, I really would not say that my BMs are smaller. I see now determining a differential diagnosis can be very difficult. I definitely notice that I'm having more BMs, but I don't know if it stepped up from the time I had foot and ankle surgery in September, or maybe after I joined the forum a month ago. I asked about the realm of "normal", but I probably should have used the word "healthy". Like everyone else on this forum I don't want to do anything to myself that would worsen my bulge. I think your description of "wrinkly soft spongy bulge" sounds more like what I have. I've been using a cosmetic mirror, and I look before I urinate and after I urinate. Before I urinate it is a light pink bulge, after I urinate it is a darker mauve colored wrinkly deflated bulge. I went to the urologist 3 times last summer trying to get the right medication for overactive bladder. In the urologists office, the modus operandi was to have me urinate, then they would do a sonogram. During the first appointment the urologist did an internal. I now conclude that she could not tell that I had prolapsed (1) because I was in the supine position, and (2) I had just urinated and my bladder probably was not protruding because it was empty or nearly empty.
I can't thank you enough for enlightening me with your experiences.
BridgeOverTroub...
February 11, 2014 - 1:18pm
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Menopause
Dear Surviving 60,
Yes, even though my urologist said that it was a uterine prolapse, which I would assume would present with the cervix, I don't think my bulge is my cervix. I'm a little shell-shocked from the prolapse presenting itself now at this stage of my life. I went through menopause at age 53, and I pretty much kept quiet about my menopause because it was a snap. I had HORRIBLE menstrual cramps as a teenager and young adult -- think narcotics. I thought mother nature was not going to let me off the hook during menopause. I can remember my own mother almost hemorrhaging while going through menopause -- think blood splashing off the floor. I was finished with the menopause stage of my life without any drama -- neither in terms of PMS or hot flashes. That being said, other issues have popped up like osteopenia which just keeps on getting worse, and now the prolapse, which from what I have read is related to collagen metabolism. Collagen metabolism was also connected to my foot and ankle reconstruction so I also am trying to put these puzzle pieces together if they will fit.
Thank you for your support.
BridgeOverTroub...
February 11, 2014 - 1:21pm
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Healthy BMs
Thanks MJH for alleviating my concerns that having numerous BMs might not be healthy for the prolapse.
Surviving60
February 11, 2014 - 5:50pm
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Bridge - very similar history
Bridge - very similar history here. Horrendous period cramps/codeine in my youth. Was on birth control pills from age 20 to 35. I had big babies and felt bulgy afterwards, but thought little of it, went back to lots of kegeling (sorry to say). Last period at 53, a relatively uneventful menopause, and then WHAM, prolapse at 60. I think this is a very common timeline. I don't have the bone or collagen issues that you have, so you probably can't assume that there is a connection, though in your case, there may be. Prolapse has lots of triggers; most of us have been working on them for decades despite the appearance that they came out of nowhere - Surviving
BridgeOverTroub...
March 20, 2014 - 9:37am
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Overactive Bladder
When I went to the urologist, she mentioned that I should try to extend the time that I'm able to hold without urinating. I don't have incontinence. However, I don't see the sense of me trying to hold my urine longer when my bladder is outside of my body. I feel more comfortable doing the pose with my arms flat on the floor and my butt in the air while on my knees when my bladder is empty. I feel that the bladder lived its life inside my body and now it is sensitive when it lives outside, so I try not to exacerbate the situation. Any opinions about this?
Surviving60
March 20, 2014 - 5:56pm
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I don't believe that anything
I don't believe that anything good can come from holding in your urine. And I suppose this is the same doc suggesting medications for overactive bladder....it doesn't take much googling to learn why those are best avoided. All this doctoring isn't getting you anywhere that I can see. Read Christine's P.S. above. We do seem to spend a lot of time on this forum, trying to get women safely away from all that useless and downright harmful meddling. I know that many women simply can't shake off what they have become so accustomed to. - Surviving
BridgeOverTroub...
April 11, 2014 - 8:58am
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Urination
For the past 2 + months I have been trying to do everything possible to move my bladder back up where it should be. I have noticed when I feel that I need to urinate that if I examine myself with a mirror, that I can see my cystocele. If I bend over like I am "jiggling" and I contract "a muscle" ( I have no idea which muscle I am contracting") that I can pull the cystocele up into my vagina, and then sit down and urinate. When I get up and I examine myself again, I see the cystocele quite smaller and I can contract the muscle again and the cystocele moves up. Is this routine benefitting me, or doesn't it matter that I do this? I notice over the past months that I don't have as much overactive bladder, but I now make sure that my bladder is as empty as possible after my morning void. I used to wake up, urinate, and act like I was off to the races, but now I take my time, and if it takes 3 starts and stops, that's what I do.
Surviving60
April 12, 2014 - 4:57am
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Contracting a muscle sounds
Contracting a muscle sounds like a kegel to me, is that what you're talking about? Remember that we are trying to move the organs forward into the belly, which the combination of jiggling and firebreathing is very effective at doing. A kegel tends to pull the organs into the vagina, not away from it. If you feel that one kegel being performed while you are in good posture is providing some benefit, I suppose it can't hurt if you aren't overdoing. My opinion might be biased because I totally avoid anything that even resembles kegeling. I did too much of it for too many years! - Surviving