When I first “cracked the code” on stabilizing and reversing prolapse, and wrote and published Saving the Whole Woman, I set up this forum. While I had finally gotten my own severe uterine prolapse under control with the knowledge I had gained, I didn’t actually know if I could teach other women to do for themselves what I had done for my condition.
So I just started teaching women on this forum. Within weeks, the women started writing back, “It’s working! I can feel the difference!”
From that moment on, the forum became the hub of the Whole Woman Community. Unfortunately, spammers also discovered the forum, along with the thousands of women we had been helping. The level of spamming became so intolerable and time-consuming, we regretfully took the forum down.
Technology never sleeps, however, and we have better tools today for controlling spam than we did just a few years ago. So I am very excited and pleased to bring the forum back online.
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Best wishes,
Christine Kent
Founder
Whole Woman
jmqphd93
January 5, 2007 - 8:50pm
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Prolapse Self Exam
Christine,
Wow! Instructive and useful, yes indeed! This helps to clarify for me the distinction among the types of prolapse - now I can feel it for myself and understand what I'm experiencing. Your graphic descriptions and photos are wonderful. I'm sure there are many gynecologists out there who would not want women to have access to this sort of information. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Jean
alemama
January 5, 2007 - 9:13pm
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empowering
christine- yea!!! can I give this to my midwife to use in her homebirth folder? can I ask for more information? B
UKmummy
January 5, 2007 - 9:18pm
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Thank you Christine!This
Thank you Christine!
This just adds to my ever increasing belief that this is all quite "normal" in us women, and that we needn't be afraid.
Michelle.
MeMyselfAndI
January 6, 2007 - 3:37am
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PDFs
Yup - my ancient computer hates PDFs
Coudl you email me a normal copy please :-)
Sue
howdidthishappen
January 6, 2007 - 5:18am
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wow!
that's fantastic, christine. i read it and know i'll be reading it frequently.
it's fascinating to see those pictures, too! and so reassuring. i was just thinking to myself last night that i didn't have any real sense of what it looked like -- my rectocele doesn't come out out of my vagina at all and even with spreading the labia, it's pretty impossbile to see. so now i get it.
this is all so informative. what a great way for me to start the day.
thank you!
xusan
JBee
January 6, 2007 - 7:09am
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Thank you!
Christine
This is soooo helpful, I can't tell you. Part of the devastating impact of prolpase I think is the unknown and I for one have been relying on the medics to tell me where things are. And this causes a lot of fear and a loss of control. This will rectify that - just to see the photos was reassuring in a weird sense if you know what I mean. Thanks and thanks too to the models x
alemama
January 6, 2007 - 7:02pm
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non prolapsed vagina
I wish I knew what a non prolapsed vagina feels like-
In the self check position when I feel the anterior vaginal wall it is very soft and I can feel all the way around it - but I don't feel one specific bulge - just the whole thing all the way as far up as I can reach. Does anyone remember what a non prolaped vagina feels like?B
granolamom
January 6, 2007 - 8:25pm
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non prolapsed vagina
I actually do remember what it felt like, Jewish orthodox married women do monthly self checks (mostly for any blood but you feel all around the vagina with a finger wrapped in a soft white cloth).
vaginal walls were soft but firm (make any sense?)and if I rotated my finger around, it was a circle with no bulges anywhere. about a year before I really noticed my cystocele I realized I was no longer able to go in a complete circle, there was a slight dip at the top of the circle (the anterior wall) but I didn't think anything of it at the time.
PA runner
January 6, 2007 - 8:42pm
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Thank you
Thank you so much for this post! I didn't have a baseline from which to assess the inside of the vagina before prolapse. I feel empowered by the information I have learned today from this post and the self exam information the Christine has put on the site. It's a good day!!!
MeMyselfAndI
January 7, 2007 - 2:23am
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:-)
I finally got it to open and read it (Lovely pics lollll)
It is kinda like the test I was talking about but with pics lol
Lovely - And a great way for women to know where they stand in this Prolapse thing...
It also lets you know yourself whether your Dr talks rubbish or not :_
Sue
alemama
January 7, 2007 - 12:56pm
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cavernous?
thank you so much for the description- that is amazing that women have been conducting self exams for ages- I wish I had been raised to do that- was it something your mother taught you when you started your monthly? I would like to teach my daughter to do that someday.
I have another question - when you check is the area cavernous or does it kinda swallow your finger(s)?B
granolamom
January 7, 2007 - 1:30pm
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monthly self exams
women in my circles are taught this before marriage. some by their mothers (not me, my mom can't say the word "tampon" without turning beet red)or by women in the community who teach such things (comes along with a whole bunch of laws that pertain to 'family purity' much too much to go into here).
before I had kids the area was tight and squeezed my finger all around. after each baby it got progressively more, shall we say, spacious? but I wouldn't say cavernous, not yet anyway. I was kegeling to keep things tight but stopped since I felt it was worsening my prolapse (still up for debate, I know)
Grandma Joy
January 7, 2007 - 10:47pm
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Prolapse Self Exam
Hi Christine,
I can't open the RESOURCE Page. I've tried for several days but it doesn't seem to work for me. I think someone else mentioned it took several times for them also. Can you help figure out the problem?
Thank you,
Grandma Joy