how to get it inserted

Body: 

I tried to use my recently received prolapse sponge yesterday, they are so large and I couldn't get it inserted even a little. I did all the soaking of it first and put some of the butter on it as well as some vaginal moisturizing gell that I already had but I still couldn't manage. I tried to roll it together as much as I could but couldn't get it small enough to go in. Does anyone have any helpful ideas that I could try. I laid on my bed to try this as I find that to be the most relaxing way for me and I pushed my prolapse back first.
Daphne