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Aging gracefully
February 13, 2015 - 9:22pm
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Hi 3boys,
Hi 3boys,
It is perfectly fine to have whatever sex you are comfortable with, but don't give up vaginal sex because of prolapse. Many of us were originally afraid and uncomfortable with sex initially, but after time and some experimentation with different positions, sex is absolutely possible and enjoyable with prolapse.
3boys
February 14, 2015 - 12:32pm
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When I mean not fun I mean
When I mean not fun I mean there is not alot of sensation. what positions work then?
Aging gracefully
February 14, 2015 - 1:51pm
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Hi 3boys,
Hi 3boys,
Sorry for my misunderstanding of your question. I think sex is different for us in all the different stages of our lives as well as they are for prolapse. I remember having great sex before kids, and then after not so much. Certain stresses can also affect how we feel about our partners and sex. I noticed more sensation now in my fifties than I did for quite a few years before that. I call it the perimenopause horniness. It seems our hormones are always fluctuating affecting everything including sex.
I know that is not your question, but bear with me. Given all those factors, I can tell you only about my experience now. When I first found prolapse, I wasn't feeling sexual or even having much sex, and it didn't really feel all that good when I did. Somehow working on whole woman changed me and my attitude about sex in general, so I did start experimenting more. My hubby was game for that!
My favorite position is actually on my right side, facing each other, leaning slightly away in the upper body half. I get a lot of sensation vaginally that way. I can't have missionary sex anymore. It just doesn't feel good.
Another position is at the edge of bed with legs straight up and together while on your back. Or folded knees off to one side. I saw that one somewhere. Hubby standing at edge of bed. These two positions also give potential for much deeper sensation.
I hope that makes sense. That's just some of the things I have tried, so you can get the idea.