When I first “cracked the code” on stabilizing and reversing prolapse, and wrote and published Saving the Whole Woman, I set up this forum. While I had finally gotten my own severe uterine prolapse under control with the knowledge I had gained, I didn’t actually know if I could teach other women to do for themselves what I had done for my condition.
So I just started teaching women on this forum. Within weeks, the women started writing back, “It’s working! I can feel the difference!”
From that moment on, the forum became the hub of the Whole Woman Community. Unfortunately, spammers also discovered the forum, along with the thousands of women we had been helping. The level of spamming became so intolerable and time-consuming, we regretfully took the forum down.
Technology never sleeps, however, and we have better tools today for controlling spam than we did just a few years ago. So I am very excited and pleased to bring the forum back online.
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Remember, the forum is here for two reasons. First, to get your questions answered by other women who have knowledge and experience to share. Second, it is the place to share your results and successes. Your stories will help other women learn that Whole Woman is what they need.
Whether you’re an old friend or a new acquaintance, welcome! The Whole Woman forum is a place where you can make a difference in your own life and the lives of thousands of women around the world!
Best wishes,
Christine Kent
Founder
Whole Woman
mir
April 26, 2007 - 6:37pm
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MimiI hope I'm doing this
Mimi
I hope I'm doing this right, and am not missing replies. I see there have been 21 "reads", but I haven't received replies yet. Am I missing something here? Thanks so much. Miriam
jmqphd93
April 26, 2007 - 9:28pm
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Missing something
Miriam,
You are not missing anything. The 21 "reads" simply means that your post has been read 21 times. I have a suggestion for you. If you look on the left side of your screen and scroll down a bit, you'll see the search box. Type in "sea sponge" or "pessary", click "Search" and you will get a whole list of all the threads where people have discussed sea sponges and pessaries on the forum. That will certainly keep you busy reading for a while. You might also try searching on "hysterectomy" - there has been discussion on the forum about the helpfulness of the posture etc. for women who have had this surgery.
My best to you,
Jean
anne59
April 27, 2007 - 2:21am
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I to have a rectocele, tthe
I to have a rectocele, tthe only differance I haven't had any surgey and find the thought of surgery re, a repair quite off putting, I tried to weigh up the alternatives, have the surgery, (if it works) we still have to be extremely careful it does not come undone as quite a percentage of these repairs often do and make matters a lot worse, I have a young friend who had repairs and is back to square one (poor thing)
I am 59 healthy other than my buldgees i'm ok, I came here 3 days ago petrified, ive had my prolapse 7 years and trotted along managing but not taking care of myself now my rectocele has got worse, but with reading in here it has helped me loads and ive also sent for the book to help me farther. I do hope you get some answers if not come back here and ask i'm sure someone will help.
mir
May 3, 2007 - 4:07pm
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Pessary-type Tries; Received Christine's Book
Mimi
Thanks Anne for your response & suggestion. I have been on this site, searching and searching, and have become very enlightened re many things surrounding the issues of the "celes" and the female anatomy in general. I ordered and received Christine's book, CD and baton, and am immersed in it. Like I stated previous, I have been hysterectomized many yrs ago, and I am absolutely certain that was the cause of my rectocele/enterocele? Not sure which - maybe both. This week I tried the "Instead" menstrual cup. The first couple of tries were unsuccessful; however, once I totally relaxed and took my time with insertion I was able to get it positioned correctly just behind the pubic bone. There wasn't a problem with it slipping out, but the longer I had it in, the more pressure I felt back toward my rectum - little twingy, crampy feeling - fairly uncomfortable. It DID, however, keep the cele from descending further down the vagina. So, bottom line is.......quite uncomfortable after a bit, but will try again some other time. NOW I think I will try the Sea Sponges....perhaps better luck as they may comform better and not exert quite as much pressure. The thing this forum has done for me
is make me SO much more aware of where all my "parts" are as opposed to where they SHOULD be, and has educated me to the hazards of the surgical "fix". At this point, I am not willing to undergo the surgery. I'm just not sure whether or not the posturing will be beneficial for my celes, but I have already gained so much from Christine's book; i.e., half-squat on the potty, the down-on-all-fours posturing, etc. Although I'm enjoying and learning from the dietary section, that's probably the least of my woes, as we eat very much like she advocates, and are not overweight. I've never had a constipation problem of any kind, so that helps. This said, I am still not willing to have this annoying "bulge" in my vagina forever, so am more than willing to do what I can without surgery. I thought perhaps Christine would reply as to what things (if any) will be beneficial to me (sans surgery)that she could suggest, considering I do not have a uterus. I'm leaving for the weekend in a few hours, so will hope for a reply before I leave if you have time. Thanks so much,
Miriam
mir
May 3, 2007 - 4:14pm
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OOPS!
This post is for Jean (JMQPhD93)
My apologies, Jean. The post I just completed to "Anne" was meant to include you . . . just my slip-up. Thanks for your help!
Miriam
mir
May 7, 2007 - 1:53pm
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NO Replies to Date re Hysterectomized Women w/Prolapse??
I posted a new comment re pessary-type applications for my rectocele/enterocele, and have not received any replies. I really would love to hear from ANYone who is struggling with the "celes" and any suggestions for what might be beneficial for those of us who were "hysterectomized" years ago. I know this site is primarily for "intact" women, but there are many of us who are not intact, but nonetheless suffer with the prolapse problems of the parts which remain in our pelvic area. As I stated earlier, I have received Christine's book/DVD, etc., and am learning much from it. What I haven't found is advice for those of us who are not intact. I'd really love to hear from Christine re what (if anything)we could derive benefit from in order to avoid repair surgery. Until I found this site, that was the only option given to me. So......I am really interested in hearing from anyone who has used the pessaries, or pessary-type things, and whether or not the things offered to intact women with prolapses would be of help to those of us who are not. Unfortunately, we can not have hysterectomies UNdone, so have to work with what we have. PLEASE, let me hear from anyone on this subject. Thanks! Miriam
Christine
May 7, 2007 - 11:15pm
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post-hysterectomy
Dear Miriam,
I’ve answered this question so many times, always with some version of “I don’t know.”
I wish I could say with the same confidence that it’s very likely you will see positive results with this work, but we rarely (ever?) hear back from post-hysterectomy women.
When I respond in this way I usually get countered with, “Well then why did I bother to buy your book?”
Then I comment that if it were me I would utilize the posture anyway for many reasons including the fact that the bladder and sigmoid colon should still be positioned over the pubic bones. I just don’t know how much benefit you’ll experience vis-à-vis the rectocele because the back vaginal wall has lost its major support.
I’ve done the best I can to outline the risks of further surgery. A posterior colporrhaphy may reduce the bulge temporarily, but it’s not going to do anything for a rectum that has fallen outside the forces of intraabdominal pressure. This means your bowel symptoms will most likely remain. Lifting the rectum with mesh may help, but that surgery is fraught with serious complication.
This is the reality of hysterectomy and the reason we need to make sure all women are informed of long term complications. There are just no easy answers.
If it were me I would see if I could live with my symptoms with the help of the posture, a good diet, and external support garments. You will find many women with extreme symptoms after second, third, and fourth surgeries. Pressing on your vaginal wall seems a minor inconvenience compared to having to manually evacuate your bowels. I wish I had more good news, but this is my best understanding of the situation. There is some number of women who derive benefit from post-hysterectomy posterior repair, but the industry has provided virtually nothing in the way of reliable studies to demonstrate just what that percentage might be. My guess is that it’s a small minority.
Hugs and prayers for your well-being,
Christine
mir
May 8, 2007 - 12:08am
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Thanks, Christine!
Many thanks, Christine, for your words of wisdom. Since receiving and reading some of your book, and beginning to understand and work on the posturing, I am at the very least in a much better frame of mind about this. The dietary habits you advocate run very parallel with the way we eat, so I guess I'm starting at a small advantage. I've never had any constipation or other bowel problems, and I agree that what I have to do to empty is not much more than an inconvenience. Actually, what is most disconcerting is that it has recently dropped further into the vagina, and there's the sensation something is there (guess because there is!). The only time it actually moves just to the edge of the opening is when I cough or sneeze, and anytime that I stand too long. I understand it's difficult to collect any meaningful progress data from hysterectomized women who write in, do the work, and then don't relay the results. So........I WILL do the work on posturing and exercise, continue to eat well, possibly experiment with the Sea Sponges, and see what happens. I will keep you informed of my progress. I am in no way sorry I bought your book bundle, and have already benefited. Thank you for your reply and the work you're doing.
Gratefully,
Miriam
Christine
May 8, 2007 - 11:39am
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:-)
We would be very happy to hear from you, Miriam.
alemama
May 8, 2007 - 12:46pm
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Miriam, you are an
Miriam, you are an inspiration. I am glad you are here and look forward to hearing how your prolapse responds to the posture. I am so sorry you are feeling more pressure lately.
After I started using the posture things got much worse for me- but only initially. I am back to baseline now and some days are better than they were. I also added more fiber to my diet and that took some tweaking to find just the right balance.
babes
May 9, 2007 - 2:54pm
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cystocele posture and book
Hi! I'm new to this site. I've been reading about "posture" helping a cystocele and a book written by "Christine". I am 44 yrs. old, pregnant (!) with number 3 and have a mild cystocele. I am getting very worried. My last child was 9lbs. 11oz. Please tell me the full name of the author and book. And any info. about posture you can share would be helpful. Thank you!
mir
May 9, 2007 - 3:32pm
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Babes - congrats on your
Babes - congrats on your pregnancy! 44 is NOT old, and I think if you are able to purchase Christine's book "Saving the Whole Woman", you will benefit during your pregnancy and for years to come in preventing further prolapses. I have no uterus, but do have a rectocele that I believe was result of 2 births (1 with epesiotomy!)and a hysterectomy. I am very new to this site, so would not be the one to advise you beyond getting the book, eating well, and starting with the work detailed in her book. Unfortunately, since I am not pelvicly intact, I may need to work harder and derive less benefit. But I will do what I need to do to "shore" things up in whatever ways possible to avoid repair surgery. In just a very short time, I am able to see progress already. I just know there are many very knowledgeable women on this WW forum, and they will be of great help to you! Best of luck with that little bundle you're nurturing! Miriam
I ordered mine (the bundle - book, loose-leaf Diet for the Whole Woman and exercise baton) from this site.
babs
May 9, 2007 - 5:18pm
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pregnancy
on the other thread you will see that quite a few of us have had pregnancies with prolapse.
i've just had my 4th child on 7th april, and she weighed 9lbs 8 ozs. i had myu previous one on 17th jan 06 and it was then i discovered my uterine descent and rectocele.
although i now have a cystocele, it is slowly improving (went to a yoga teacher this week to help with exercises!).
all in all pregnancy wasn't any harder although for final weeks i sis have problems voiding my bladder.
i got my book last year off amazon as i am in uk.
hope this helps.
b
babes
May 9, 2007 - 5:59pm
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Thank you...
...Miriam for your quick response and reassurance! I will order everything and hope for the best. This looks like a wonderful site. I thought I was the "only one" with this problem. Your response gives me plenty of hope. Take care of yourself and be well! : )