When I first “cracked the code” on stabilizing and reversing prolapse, and wrote and published Saving the Whole Woman, I set up this forum. While I had finally gotten my own severe uterine prolapse under control with the knowledge I had gained, I didn’t actually know if I could teach other women to do for themselves what I had done for my condition.
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Christine
January 2, 2011 - 6:32pm
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You will find over time,
dearie, that the only thing that works is moving the pelvic contents forward. The *amazing* thing about this is, we can do it - perhaps even best - by simply sitting strongly pulled up into WW posture. Kegels are nonsense at any level.
My prolapse was *horrible* a few days ago, and I fixed it completely by sitting up strongly in the posture for 48 hours while playing on the floor with my granddaughter! The fascia will comply, but the key is getting these heavy organs tilted over toward the front.
Christine
louiseds
January 2, 2011 - 10:02pm
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kegals
Hi Doubtful
I agree with you about kegels having the ability to strengthen pelvic floor muscles to the point where they will keep organs down, rather than allowing them to rise up again.They are not muscles that are built for bulking up. They are meant to open and shut, and allow the organs to move around. There are shallow muscles and deep muscles. If you really crunch down on the deep muscles while your organs are low, of course your organs will be kept low.
I agree with Christine that the main principle is to pull them forwards. If you pull them forwards, they *will* rise. Then an active (not bulked up) pelvic floor will keep them in that forward position, by stabilising from the back, as long as they have that position of 'out of the way' safety in their relaxed little pozzie against the lower abdominal wall, with the pelvis remaining tilted slightly forwards, held in place by a proudly raised chest which maintains a large lumbar curve.
You may be right about the diet, but you won't know unless you do it over several months.
Christine
January 3, 2011 - 9:41am
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"I fixed it completely" :)
oops...I try to be very careful of sentences like that. The difference between my surgically-induced uterine prolapse being horrible and fine-enough is very slight, maybe 2-3 centimeters. The posture has been enough to pull it forward so it's not stretching and rubbing my introitus. This has been a true miracle for me and once I understood how female anatomy really works, I believed if I could make this work for me, it could work for the majority of women who had never had surgery.
granolamom
January 5, 2011 - 11:27am
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btdt, no lasting damage
hey doubtful
I have had a similar experience, started to get my cystocele up and forward, thought adding kegels would be icing on the cake and it backfired. literally- I developed a rectocele in addition to worsening my cystocele.
so I stopped kegels and got back to where I was and continued to see positive changes.
dont worry about it, you've learned something valuable about your body. experience isn't free you know!
deep breath and on with it : )
you'll be ok
doubtful
January 6, 2011 - 5:10am
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reversing kegel damage
Thanks Christine and Granolamom for the reassurance and tips.
It's hard to get ourselves out of the mindset that more is more ( exercise/ deprivation etc) but I've hardly worked out in the last few days - strictly no kegels- ever - again but lots of busyness and ordinary exercise - walking- housework and the trusty firebreathing and nauli. I've also forced myself to sit in the posture for long stretches at my desk
It is hard work- tires your back out. But, hurrah - big improvement already.
There's something very silly about spending hours squeezing your fanny anyway.
Cheerfully,
Doubtful
Christine
January 6, 2011 - 9:57am
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kegeling ourselves silly
hahahaha, doubtful - I totally agree.
christinabf
January 6, 2011 - 10:36pm
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What's wrong with Kegels, anyway?
Can anyone explain this to me? I thought they were pretty benign.
granolamom
January 7, 2011 - 1:19pm
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whats wrong with kegels
I guess it depends on your goal. for me, bulking up those muscles just to bulk 'em up, made my POP symptoms worse. I dont think strong pelvic 'floor' muscles will reverse a prolapse, so in terms of POP management, I think kegels are useless at best. at worst they fatigue the muscle and increase bulk in the area. I also wonder (not that I've got any scientific reasoning behind these statements) if overworked pelvic floor muscle can cause a functional imbalance. similar to what you'd get if you overdid your ab's without also working out your paraspinals.
aside from serious athletes and those recovering from injury, I wonder why we do targeted, isolated exercise reps of any muscle group. it doesnt seem functional to me at all. when used properly and regularly throughout the course of an active day, one's muscles stay pretty strong. strong enough to do the things that one typically does, anyway.
and back to kegels, we have some anecdotal evidence here that they sometimes worsen prolapse. without any proven benefit to prolapse, I say why bother?
Aussie Mum
January 7, 2011 - 6:08pm
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My experience with Kegels
I just felt I had to comment on this post as I have most definately found kegels helpful. If I had seen these posts when I was newly diagnosed, scared and very very emotional I may have been discouraged to try something which is potentially helpful.
So to share my experience with kegels - I recall doing them randomly in the past, and during pregnancy. I always thought they felt strange, and this discouraged me doing many. I did them after pop as told by the hospital, but it was only once the womens physiotherapist showed me how to do them that I noticed an improvement. For me - they stopped the slight urine leakage I had, relatively quickly. For my rectocele I was unsure what was exactly helping as I tried many things. More recently I stopped doing them, as just got lazy I guess and am no longer seeing the physio, so not having to 'report back'. When seeing her my pelvic floor strength went from weak to very good. It is only since feeling really awful again in the past couple of weeks that I started doing kegels again, and the other night did a pelvic floor DVD I have, and also went to the gym. Well I am amazed to say that after doing them for 2 days the horrible feeling went away again.
I am convinced for me, that they DO make a difference. The only time I think they make things worse for a rectocele is if you are constipated. I always feel that squeezing this area when consitpated is not helpful. If bowels are functioning ok, kegels make me feel stronger, less bulgy and weighty in the pelvic floor.
They are worth trying and seeing how they go for you, and if no good then give it a miss.
louiseds
January 8, 2011 - 10:17am
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Valid point
Valid Point, AussieMum.
Each woman's POP is different. Granolamom is right. There is zero scientific evidence that Kegels help POP. Bladder continence is often associated/present with POP, ie general stretching and lack of muscle tone and response around the urethra. But I have always thought that Kegels were primarily to sort out bladder continence anyway.
After a woman gives birth her pelvic floor muscles sometimes just don't want to work. It is important for them to move. Kegels will help them to get back to work again and get some tone, but beyond that I agree with Gmom. WW posture and lots of appropriate, whole body exercise will get them moving too, as well as a heap of other muscles. Kegels exercise muscles. WW posture fixes POP *symptoms* by realigning pelvic organs via their fascial supports. I would be doing both, but for these two different reasons.
You will still have POP, even if you do both, but your symptoms of POP and your stretched urethra sphincters will both improve.
...but none of us needs a six pack between our legs! That is just silly and unnecessary.
Louise
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