WIDENING/TEARING OF VAGINAL OPENING

Body: 

I don't see my previous post anywhere so I will ask this question again. My vaginal opening has stretched due to pressure from prolapse to about two fingers width from my anal opening. Is this life-threatening or is it something I can correct? Help! I am frightened and desperate. Do I need to see a gyn and consider surgery. I would like to keep everything intact.

I never understood how to properly do firebreathing. I wish there was in the video a demonstration of the firebreathing technique. I did not see it if there is.

No, it is not life-threatening. Yes, you can correct it. It is within your power. Of course you are feeling frightened now, frightened of the unknown because there is very little public discussion of it, even between friends. Once you understand more about your body, and make friends with it again, and you discover the power you have to restore your natural design, your fear will slowly dissipate. Be patient.

It may take a while for your body to respond, but it will, because you are helping to restore it, not teaching to do something new. Your body wants to heal. You will have short term, temporary setbacks too, and unusual, and sometimes alarming changes will happen, but it is all to do with the gradual shifting of organs towards their normal positions again. These are signs of progress.

Stick with us. We can help you along this journey.

Re the gyn, yes, go and have a formal diagnosis, but don't take the degree of prolapse *too* seriously, because it will change from day to day and during the month too, but it is useful to know what the gyn thinks. You will probably get the surgery spiel. Listen to it, ask questions, then come away and think about it. This exercise of 'going to the gyn' is bound to give you extra resolve to manage this yourself. ;-)

Sad, but true. There are no silver bullets.

Louise