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Surviving60
February 7, 2012 - 4:46pm
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No need to rush!
Hi there (don't make me spell it....) - Are you thinking you need a Whole Woman crash course before heading into all those appointments? I wouldn’t worry about it. Bone up on WW posture as much as you can. Go to your appointments and see what they have to say, then get back to work on your own.
I don’t know about teachers in that area or any others. I understand the first official class won’t be certified until May. This forum is full of women like me, all around the world, who did this all on their own by studying Christine’s body of work. I’m sure one day there will be a network of WW practitioners.......but not yet. You can do it by yourself with the resources you have and the wonderful women here. Good luck and have a nice trip! Post updates here. - Surviving60
gfkspicoli
February 7, 2012 - 5:04pm
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Thank you surviving60
Thank you-:) I needed to hear someone say slow down you don't have to fix this overnight! I KNOW intellectually I don't have to even try to fix it overnight, and that the best we can hope for is to learn to manage our bodies, be aware of them and how they work, and not to take them for granted! Easier said than done though, as I head into doing things like traveling which I've not done before while working around these new issues. A agree that the wonderful women here provide a support network we all need. Your words are reassuring and I do truly feel that we have to be the primary caregivers of our own bodies, taking bits and pieces of info from various things we hear and read, using what we can to apply to ourselves.
louiseds
February 8, 2012 - 11:00pm
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Well said, Surviving60
Hi Gfkspicoli
Surviving60 is right, it does not all have to be done at once. This WW work we do with our own brains, in seeking to understand how our bodies are designed to work, and we work with our bodies to implement it. You can go for years, refining your techniques and getting further improvement. The more you do the more faith you can regain in your own body.
It is really just creating another set of boundaries for your activities, which is larger in area than when you start WW work, but differently shaped from when your pelvic organs were in their original places. Hopefully you will be able to get them back where they belong and cultivate a set of skills that will enable you to get them back there again, whenever they get out of position.
I will be curious to hear what the OT has to say. I have wondered for a long time how OTs could help women learn to do everyday tasks differently, and how to modify our environments to be better for our bodies to use.
Are there any Occupational Therapists out there amongst our membership? We would love you to add your perspective of how OT could help women adapt to this injury.
It sounds like your PT was very much Kegels oriented. However, her observation about having weak glutes is interesting. I am wondering what changes she recommended to the way you walk? Can you describe what you have to do?
If you have your butt tucked under your glutes have to remain in tension all the time to keep that backward pelvic tilt. This means that they never get stretched out, so they cannot ever have their full range of movement. I used to have very contracted glutes, and I used to get quite a bit of pain in the places where they are attached to my pelvis. I no longer get that pain. My squats score goes off the dial when I do a fitness test, so something good is happening for me. Your butt may not have been tucked. If you don't do a lot of knee bending or walking with long, unhurried strides, it is easy for your glutes to weaken.
All the plies in the ballet workout and the WW workout are very good for your gluteal muscles, among other things. I am not suggesting that your PT's exercises be ignored, but that WW exercises, and bending your knees when you do everyday tasks will also strengthen your glutes.
Louise
gfkspicoli
February 10, 2012 - 5:14pm
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Glute Exercises
Hi Louise and thanks for your input. The Forum here is a wonderful resource! I may or may not see the OT I talked with when I get back home (I'm in Arizona now, until the end of April), but I will see the PT here later in Feb to see what she has to say. She may be Kegel oriented, but however she was trained, every bit of input can help me.
As for the first PT I saw, she recommended I do the following for weak glutes: walk forward but when doing so, start by putting your right foot out WIDE to the right while tightening the glute muscle on that side, then follow with a step WIDE out to the left with the left foot, tightening the glute on that side. Continue this pattern for 20-30 feet. I saw her about a month ago, and started this vigorously in the beginning, not quite as vigorously now, and tried to be much more aware of what my glutes were doing. When going uphill I do not lean forward anymore, nor when going up stairs.
I don't do squats, as my knees have been weak too, and perhaps if I DID do squats, they would strengthen. However, I don't want to hurt my self! I've been trying to stretch my hamstrings, so when bending over, try not to bend my knees. Can't win! I'll try to be more aware of both now.
I've been a horse person my whole life, and in my younger days we would train horses whose bodies were out of balance to use their hindquarters for "push off, " and not to be so "front heavy." This makes for a better ride for the rider and a more easy gait for the animal, but often does not come naturally to them. As I have been walking and concentrating on my butt strength, I've been imagining myself as one of the quadripeds mentioned by Christine, trying to rebalance my body which has been years in the path to becoming unbalanced.
alemama
February 10, 2012 - 7:55pm
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wait. you r in arizona?
Like, Christine territory? Get thee to the wholewoman center!
gfkspicoli
February 10, 2012 - 8:42pm
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Visiting the WW Center
I thought of it.....but it's a day's drive and at an elevation I'm not sure I can handle....I'd love to go though:-)
louiseds
February 10, 2012 - 9:35pm
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Train?
:-)