Is there any way of private messaging someone

How does one do that?

Hi Irishmum, I think the only way to do this is to e-mail Louise and ask her to see if you can be put in touch with someone. Her address is louiseds at wholewoman dot com.

You used to be able to just click on someones name and then if they had the contact option click that - Unless that is gone now?
*EDIT*
I had a click about and looks like that has been removed for some reason, which is a shame...

That feature no longer exists since the forum was upgraded to a newer version. I don't know if it can be restored, but meanwhile Louise is handling requests to get in touch with members.