Hello Everyone! I need some advice and/or your personal experience (PP POP)

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Hello... (I think this is going to be a bit long SORRY)
I'm new here and I'm glad I found this site. Posts have been giving me alot of hope and I've been feeling better but I'm still depressed and keep thinking "what if I never get my "normal" life back" IM ONLY 19 yes only 19 and already encountering this problem!
I had a baby boy on August 8th (7lb & 11oz) vaginal delivery, no complications, no stitches! Went home the next day. Everything was great UNTIL about 2 weeks ago I discovered something fleshy, pink, a bulge coming out of my vagina (it wasn't out) but I could see it there. I inmediately freacked out. Next day I went to a Walk-in-Clinic ( I live in Canada btw) and the doctor told me I had a mild prolapse, didn't tell me what kind of prolapse. He told me not to push when going to the washroom or lift heavy things so that it wouldn't get worse. He did say to call my gyn and make an earlier appointment which I have on the Sept 28th. I did call but his nurse wouldn't give me the appointment she told me I had to wait until the 28th.
And Well I'm just very glad I found this site where I can get so much information and opinions, advices, and best of all your own personal experience, because to be honest doctors seem not to care much about this situation (its frustrating!). I mean this is serious and it's affecting so many of us. Well I've been reading so much about everything that has to do with prolapse, and HONESTLY surgery isn't an option at all...
The pessary I would like to try but also thinking about physiotherapy which I've read that also helps alot.??
If anyone could please give some adivce and tell me a little about your own personal experience with pessaries and/or physiotherapy... do these actually help? I read about kegels but don't know how to do them... I'm waiting until I see the gyn.
About the pessary is it uncomfortable when having sex? I tried having intercourse with my partner and it wasn't very comfortable, it was a bit painful. Did any of you had side effects after wearing them? and was your sex life normal with it? Does the pessary actually improve the postpartum prolapse? Has anyone healed from this? I'm not sure whether to wear a pessary or do the physiotherapy??
Also I'm confused about WW posture thing and all that if anyone could please give me a brief description or something about the WW posture... Ive been trying to figure it out but still don't get it.
Sorry for asking so much but I'm very worried about all this. Thinking about "I can't do this anymore, I can't do that anymore" Im also having a very bad low back pain!!!! it hurtssssss
Anyone PLEASE some advice THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR SUPPORT like I said
IM SO GLAD I FOUND THIS SITE WHERE I CAN OPENLY SHARE MY ISSUE AND WHERE I CAN GET ADVICE AND SUPPORT...
Thank you all
God bless you!

Hi Mariposa – The first thing I’ll say to you is, relax and breathe! You’ll be OK. You are young and only 5 weeks post partum. If you take care of yourself, you’ll have HUGE improvement. However, during the PP period it sometimes gets worse before it gets better. There are lots of posts on this forum about the ups and down of PP prolapse.

First and foremost is to learn the posture. There is a good description in the FAQs above. You can go to the Resources tab and watch the first video on the video page, which is about 20 minutes long and explains Whole Woman and demonstrates the posture. The main features are: Relax the belly, pull the chest up, shoulders down but not back, head pulled up at the crown. It’s the total opposite of what most of us have been taught (“Tuck your butt! Pull in your abs! Shoulders back!” ….NO, NO, and NO!!!) and what most of us have done all our lives, which is one reason we’re in this pickle.

You’ve asked lots of questions and you will get answers to all of them. Relax and enjoy your babe, and stay tuned. Start living in the posture NOW. Post partum is perfect because you’ve been carrying your organs forward in the belly for 9 months, and that’s where WW posture tries to keep them, pinned over the pubic bones instead of falling backwards and down into the vaginal space. – Surviving