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Surviving60
April 15, 2013 - 2:31pm
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Way more than an exercise program
Hi Kaya and welcome. You can do as much as or little as you are able. The most important thing is getting your body into the posture and incorporating that into your every waking moment. This is much more than an exercise program! It's about redeveloping that lumbar curvature that allows the organs to be properly supported. So, relax the belly, pull up your chest, and starting working towards the goal of making this your natural, second-nature posture. - Surviving
Kayakoto
April 16, 2013 - 6:33pm
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Hi!
Thank you for the reply and the warm welcome, Surviving. ^_^
Posture is still something I'm working on. I don't think I have it quite down yet as I have horrible posture. Sometimes I think I'm forcing myself to relax my belly, if that makes sense? I have noticed a relief in pelvic pressure though, so my attempts must be working somehow. I also find it easier to attempt the WW posture when I'm standing/walking versus sitting. I hope I get better at this part. I would love to make this posture second-nature versus consciously forcing myself into it.
I read elsewhere on this forum about laying on your belly while watching TV. I started doing that at night when reading, but notice that my lower back starts to ache a bit. I assume it's just part of my adjustment period? (At least that's what I gather from reading the forum.) I guess I have a ways to go...
Kaya
louiseds
April 17, 2013 - 9:05am
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posture not coming naturally
Hi Kayakoto
The improvement in your posture will go on for years, with persistent practice. I have been doing these techniques now for about nine years. About three years after I started I made myself a body clone, ie a duct tape model of my body to use as a dressmaker's model. I measured it the other day and compared it to my current shape and posture and decided that I needed to make a new one. My back is a different shape and I no longer have one shoulder higher than the other. It does get easier and easier. The benefit of the exercises is in getting the body to fully extend, to compensate for all the time we spend in flexion. Just do what you can do.
Even if you cannot firebreathe you will probably be able to do slow and gentle abdominal breathing, either on all fours or in a semi-squat with your hands on your knees and a horizontal back.
alemama
April 17, 2013 - 9:58pm
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Louise is right
Even if you cannot firebreathe you will probably be able to do slow and gentle abdominal breathing, either on all fours or in a semi-squat with your hands on your knees and a horizontal back.
I think this will work well for you- on the inhale relax your belly towards the floor, on the exhale, bring it back up :)
Kayakoto
April 19, 2013 - 1:03pm
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Thank you, louiseds and
Thank you, louiseds and alemama for the encouragement.
Louise, will you by chance be sharing pictures of the clone here? I would really love to see the differences between the before and after. Also thank you for sharing about doing these techniques for 9 years now. I understand now that I have to be even more patient than I originally thought.
Alemama, that suggestion helped! Thank you. It felt much smoother than my normal sitting breath/posture. I don't know why that is, but I'm going to practice with that. ^_^
- Kaya
Daphne11
April 19, 2013 - 4:04pm
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Louise is right
Louise, I wanted to take a minute to say thanks for re-stating this technique. I needed to hear this. Daphne11
louiseds
April 22, 2013 - 1:46am
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body clone
I'll see if I can photograph me and my clone together in the one image, and put it on the Whole Woman FB page. It will be interesting to see if the difference is visible. All I know is that I can no longer trust my body clone to give my tops a perfect fitting. Of course, at my 4 years postmenopause stage I am probably getting more shoulder fat and waist fat, but less hip fat, so there is that effect as well.
Don't worry. I won't post nude photographs! ;-)
Louise
fab
April 22, 2013 - 2:26am
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No nude photos
Thank god for that!
wholewomanUK
April 28, 2013 - 6:43am
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Exercizing without over-exerting
You may find the WW yoga approach may suit you better. You can follow the dvd gently and work within your comfort zone. After you've got used to the practice you can slow the pace down if you want. I generally breathe as slowly and comfortably and do the movements as slowly as my breath. You may find the Wheel of Yoga 1 a good one to start with. Also if you're lucky enough to be able to see a trained WW practitioner, I think that would be helpful for you.
As you get more used to the WW approach, posture and exercises you can gain confidence and try out what works for you. The posture is key for everyone, but we're all different too and as we learn to listen to the feedback our bodies give us, you may well find you gradually find things that work particularly well for you.
For example, I find if I do a standing forward bend after each time I've gone to the loo, that just helps to keep my pelvic organs in good position throughout the day, with v. little extra time or effort.
Good luck and happy learning!
xwholewomanuk