When I first “cracked the code” on stabilizing and reversing prolapse, and wrote and published Saving the Whole Woman, I set up this forum. While I had finally gotten my own severe uterine prolapse under control with the knowledge I had gained, I didn’t actually know if I could teach other women to do for themselves what I had done for my condition.
So I just started teaching women on this forum. Within weeks, the women started writing back, “It’s working! I can feel the difference!”
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caterpillar7
November 29, 2013 - 8:08pm
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I should clarify that when I
I should clarify that when I say 'bulging out' I mean that my prolapse feels like it's bulging out of my vagina a bit. I have seen my doctor lately and she does not seem overly concerned about it. Although it bothers me.
caterpillar7
November 29, 2013 - 8:33pm
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One more thing!!!
Last thing I forgot to mention lol. I've developed a bad sore lower back out of nowhere today. It came out of the blue. I have not done anything strenuous for a few days, in fact I was laid up yesterday with a stomach bug. I didn't know if the back pain could be related. Ok I'm done now!
kiko
November 30, 2013 - 3:41am
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Hi Nicole,
Hi Nicole,
I would guess that your menstrual cycle would have more to do with the increased prolapse symptoms than running. As long as you're running in WW posture, you're only doing good for your prolapse :-)
Surviving60
November 30, 2013 - 5:47am
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35 miles a week
Nicole - I agree that if (and only if!) you have totally and completely mastered WW posture, then running in posture can be good for you. But at one year PP, you are still healing. 35 miles a week is an awful lot of running. Might you consider from time to time, swapping in some other type of lower-impact exercise for part of that? Christine has so many routines to offer, and they work different parts in different ways that you will not get from all those hours of running. Just a suggestion. - Surviving
caterpillar7
November 30, 2013 - 8:28am
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Thank you ladies. I try to
Thank you ladies. I try to stay in posture when I run but I must confess that I don't always. I'm just upset that somehow my prolapse may have worsened. I need to work on my posture. And maybe look into other exercises.
Does anyone wear a pessary when exercising? I'm wondering if that is an option?
Surviving60
November 30, 2013 - 11:54am
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Caterpillar
Consider it a wake-up call. You have quite a lot of energy, but you need to bump prolapse management up a little higher on your priority list. You aren't doing the best that you could be in that department. Even now, you are thinking perhaps a pessary will allow you to continue running 35 miles a week in less-than-good posture.......not the solution. - Surviving
Free2be
November 30, 2013 - 12:10pm
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Caterpillar7
There is an old saying that I believe has a lot of validity, "Too much of a good thing is not good". My mom who had prolapse for 18 years always gave me good advice and she always told us to be moderate in all things. When you run as opposed to walking you are putting more impact on your body and to do it to excess (35 miles) in my humble opinion can be counterproductive to healing. Having prolapse brings us to the realization that we have to take ourselves to a "new normal" and if we make some changes in our lifestyle , we may even find out that we are having a better, happier life than we had before the prolapse. If you do any amount of research on the effects of running on female organs you will find it's not the best exercise in general for women. Walking can be very exhilarating, you have time to enjoy nature, do deep breathing AND get a celes friendly workout stopping ever so often and allowing a better concentration on staying in WWposture. Life is a great adventure and we are given so many choices. I wish you the best for your highest good. Free2be
caterpillar7
November 30, 2013 - 4:31pm
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Thank you for your responses
Thank you for your responses I appreciate it. I wasn't considering a pessary in place of good posture, just the mental image of my prolapse bouncing up and down, I can't seem to get out of my head so I thought it might be an option.
The reason I've started running is because it is hands down the best stress relief I've ever found, and I've struggled with anxiety for years. I've don't other exercises, cardio, yoga, etc., and I've never found anything quite like running. It is also a dream of mine to run a half marathon.
But I do realize I need to put my prolapse more at the forefront, and pay more attention to posture as well as consider other forms of exercise.
fab
November 30, 2013 - 6:07pm
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Running a Half Marathon
Just thinking about that makes me feel tired Caterpillar7, but I get it. I get the the full life extending and embracing of the universe through my heat, and arms and legs. It's so very important in life to do what you love and you can chase that goal a little further by perhaps talking things over with a coach. There are good ones out there who will give it to you straight and maybe through their help and advice you can find a way.
Otherwise, I am with free2be, surviving and Kiko, a good athlete knows to quit when there is injury, fix the injury and then work forward. Sometimes delays teach us necessary experience for our greater benefit when meeting future trials further down the track in life.
Glad to read you are putting your prolapse to the forefront at this stage in your life. As well as your cycle think back about your diet over the past few days and toileting adventures. Remember any pressures from constipation, diarrhea, intestine inflammation and wind etc can have a downward pushing effect on prolapse and release of these pressures allows it to recede.
caterpillar7
November 30, 2013 - 8:32pm
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Thank you for your response.
Thank you for your response. I actually am having constipation and a lot of abdominal gas a pressure today since you mention it. It is very unusual for me, as I usually control my constipation through diet and taking milk of magnesia, but even that is not working. I am assuming it is leftover from the stomach bug I had the other day. I've been worried about it, hoping that the prolapse isn't causing a worsening of my constipation, but who knows.
Thanks to you all. I think I have to scale back on my running. I haven't seen a pelvic floor specialist since my prolapse either so I think I'm going to try and find one and make a doctors appointment to get checked out, it can't hurt.
Surviving60
December 1, 2013 - 7:15am
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Time to come clean
OK Caterpillar. Your last paragraph made me wonder how seriously you have been studying/practicing WW principles. I discovered that you have been a member here for 6-1/2 years. If you haven't gotten a copy of Saving the Whole Woman and/or the FAFP dvd, now would be the time. if you have, it's time to go back and review. I wonder if some of the anxiety you experience comes from not fully accepting and addressing your prolapse. - Surviving
caterpillar7
December 1, 2013 - 3:00pm
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Surviving- thanks for the
Surviving- thanks for the feedback but I'm not sure what you mean about coming clean. I'm completely honest here. I have the whole woman package. The book, first aid DVD and yoga DVD. I have read them and seen them all. I joined years ago when I thought I had a prolapse but actually didn't, but now I do after having my daughter. I do read and brush up on it from time to time.
I have worked on the posture and have incorporated some of the information into my life. Have I committed everything to memory, follow every detail and do all of the exercises? No. I probably should. Do I still want to have a doctor to follow up with and help me address my constipation issues and monitor my prolapse? Yes. I don't see anything wrong that. I should also mention here that I have been suffering with Vulvodynia since age 14 and diagnosed with pelvic floor dysfunction in my twenties, way before my prolapse. I have always had a pelvis floor doctors to help me monitor my pain issues. Do I completely and totally accept my prolapse? No, you are right I do have anxiety about it, and to be honest I hate it. I've tried over the past year to do my best to accept it, but at times it makes me feel disgusting, it gets me down, especially when it limits my everyday life.But I'm living with it. I'm not considering surgery right now, mainly due to Christine's literature I've read, but if it ever gets bad enough? I don't know, I might, if I'm being totally honest. I'm only human. I'm trying my best.
I reached out to this site to get some help and feedback. I have a lot of conflicting feelings and thoughts about my prolapse. There are some days I dont want to live with it and some where I don't even think about it. But I am living with it and this whole woman site is the only support network I've been able to find. I know that a lot of woman have found complete solace in the information from this site, and I truly wish I was one of them - I have found it to be a great comfort and full of great women, and definitely has a lot of good information. It has helped me to accept my prolapse as much as I can at this point. But I'm not at 100% like a lot of the other ladies here. I wish I was.
Before I read your response I was also going to write a quick follow up note that I decided to go for a run today , only 30 minutes which is short for me. I was able to follow the posture guidelines, it was actually easier for me to run in the posture than it is for me to walk with it. Something about the forward motion I guess. I avoided hills because it put strain on my posture and I also had to remind myself to relax my belly more than a few times. But I managed to do it and my prolapse did not feel any worse afterwards. So at least I know that I can run at least short distances following the full posture guidelines. I thought I would post this in case there are other runners out there. Try to avoid hills and relax belly!
Surviving60
December 1, 2013 - 3:20pm
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Hi Caterpillar, thanks for
Hi Caterpillar, thanks for writing back and clarifying. I truly did not mean to offend you in any way. It’s just that your posts were not unlike many that we get from new members who are dabbling in the work but not really ready to commit; who still look to their doctors for guidance with prolapse, despite traditional medicine’s complete lack of understanding of pelvic support. I know you don’t want to hear this, but nothing less than 100% will do here, and I know not everyone can or will be able to devote that. Of course you do not need to memorize the exercises (that’s what DVDs are for); but the posture, yes, absolutely, you must. I hope you will continue to look for guidance here, and find what you are looking for. If you want to love and respect your body again, and live life without fear and dread, Christine’s path is the only one. - Surviving
caterpillar7
December 1, 2013 - 3:27pm
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Thank you for writing back. I
Thank you for writing back. I do appreciate the feedback and it motivates me a little more to devote some time and energy to studying the materials. The posture I can do. I still have to think about it all the time and I find it annoying but I can do it, and I can do it whole running, which I learned today. I plan to re- look at the book tonight and maybe it will give me some new insights. I don't know if I will ever really be able to accept my prolapse but I will try.
Surviving60
December 1, 2013 - 4:18pm
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Caterpillar, I was into my
Caterpillar, I was into my second year of serious effort before the posture became second nature. I still have to think about it when I bend, lift and carry, but at least my body has "memorized" the shape. Have you read anything about Christine's hips work? This posture is not just about prolapse at all. Save your hips while you can!! - Surviving
PS, if you have the first edition (orange cover) I would recommend getting the second edition (blue cover).
lanny
December 1, 2013 - 8:05pm
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ww yoga - third wheel
caterpillar,
on the 3rd yoga DVD, christine talks about barefoot running. runners need to run. how to run is the issue. experimenting with an alternative to heel strike running may be helpful as it is for christine. also, when you are running, particularly uphill, be careful not to bend your torso forward. once you put yourself in an obtuse angle, you are asking for trouble.
hope this helps...
lanny (christine's DH)
caterpillar7
December 1, 2013 - 8:42pm
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thank you both. I do have
thank you both. I do have the newer version of the book, in fact I was just looking at it. Firebreathing is something that I've never done - I didn't notice it at the end of the book, so I'm going to give it a shot.
Lanny, thank you for understanding my desire to run. Barefoot running.....that is interesting, I've never thought of that. For the most part, I run on a treadmill at the gym (I can read my kindle and it's my 'me' time), so I don't have to worry about hills. But once or twice a week I run outdoors and it is hilly. Today I took precautions to only run on flat land as I was concerned about what the hill would do to my posture. Thank you for the tip on how to angle myself. I will also have to pay attention to how my feet/heels hit the ground. I've never paid much mind to that before.
I feel so good after running, I can't imagine having to give it up. For now, I'm just going to scale back. Maybe cut my mileage in half. Alternate days going on the elliptical instead, which is lower impact. And when I do run, I'm going to start paying close attention to my posture, which I admit I was not doing before. I was glad to discover today that it is really easy to run in posture, and not at all straining.
Surviving60
December 2, 2013 - 10:58am
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Caterpillar
I thought of you while reading Christine's latest newsletter, which I'm sure you also received. Not only about throwing yourself 100% into the posture work, but trying very hard to break from the notion that doctors are going to help you with this. Unlike some of us here, you have been "doctoring" for a long time and it's hard to change. But Christine explains the issues as no one else can.
I believe that you can find every bit as much exhilaration in diligent posture walking (at least some of the time) as you can from running or elliptical. I trained my body in the posture by conscious mindful walking, lots of it. Thus, walking isn't merely something that you can STILL do despite prolapse, but rather, something that you NEED to do, to actually address and improve the problem. I can now do it for hours, and it only makes my 'celes feel better. - Surviving
Christine
December 2, 2013 - 1:13pm
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running, hot yoga
I've been running (bit by bit!) up on my toes for about three years now. I go out about every other day in the early morning and run around my neighborhood. Honestly, I cannot fathom running heel-strike-first anymore and understand how researchers are finding far less injury with "barefoot" running. For beginners who want to try it, go very slowly, stay strongly pulled into WW posture, and pay attention to how your knees are responding. My knees took several weeks to adjust, often aching significantly. The knee ligaments are strengthened now and I never experience knee pain.
On alternate early mornings I go to hot yoga up the street. It's traditional Bikram yoga, which I can live without, but I just love the sauna effect. I would do hot WW yoga here if I wouldn't risk the wear and tear of such high heat on my natural plaster walls and wood floor. The teachers let me do my own thing and sort of ignore me as the old lady at the back of the room, while I delight in changing the asanas into something much more anatomic. This morning we were in some sort of arabesque-type extension pose and the teacher said "now pull up your pelvic floor and straighten through your torso." Instead, I strongly pulled my tailbone up, lifted my chest, and tucked my chin. I was performing the true spinal extension and had perfect balance, while the others were wobbly because they were actually contracting throughout.
The world simply has it backwards!!
Christine
caterpillar7
December 2, 2013 - 5:56pm
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Thank you ladies! I did read
Thank you ladies! I did read the newsletter and it was very helpful. For the past few days I've been paying very close attention to my body and posture. I took a 4 mile jog today and stayed in posture throughout. I've also been pulling myself into posture when bending or changing positions, although sometimes I forget and have to remind myself. Christine, you mention running on your toes..... Can you elaborate a little bit on that? I tried to put less burden on my heels when I was running, and more on the balls of my feet. Is that correct?
kiko
December 3, 2013 - 4:42am
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Runinng on toes...
...is running on the balls of the feet, yes. Although some people also run midfoot aswell, which is okay too. The research that I've read has in fact been inconclusive on whether heel-striking causes more injuries though. But try barefoot running and you won't be landing on your heel!
I'm doing the hips work because running (and other activities) have indicated I have weak hips.
Also, I'm reading a book on marathon training (which might interest you Caterpillar!) which advocates strongly the idea of cross-training rather than just a lot of running. In fact, to start off, the author recommends only three walk-runs a week of 20 minutes. That's not a lot of mileage! I find the whole woman workouts to be excellent cross-training for running.
caterpillar7
December 2, 2013 - 8:37pm
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thank you Kiko! The next
thank you Kiko! The next time I run, I'm going to try out running more on the middle/front of my foot. I found it a little difficult today, probably because I'm not used to it yet. I was pretty much able to run on the middle of my foot for the majority of my run, but it was tough to run on my toes.
Thanks for the info on cross training.....I probably do need to vary my workouts, I just enjoy running so much it's hard to break away. But I'm going to try and alternate with the elliptical, as well as the bike (if I can do it in posture). I think I've just gotten stuck on running. I did limit my run today and only did 4 miles as opposed to 6 or 7. I'm also going to look more into the WW workouts. I have the first yoga DVD which I have done a number of times, and also the exercise CD that came with the book (which I admit I've never looked at) - I plan to try it out this week or weekend when I have time.
As long as I can figure out workouts that I can do in posture that get my heartbeat going, I can substitute for running. I just crave that cardio workout - it's like my brain needs it!
caterpillar7
December 2, 2013 - 8:47pm
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I'm feeling more committed
I'm feeling more committed than I ever have to treating my prolapse by integrating the posture. When I thought I had POP years ago, it was just a fluke, and I didn't. When I actually did get my celes after having my daughter a year ago, I was extremely upset at first, and ordered the book and dvd. I read them, but was then struck with horrible post partum depression and anxiety (unrelated to prolapse), and dealing with my prolapse took a backseat. This past year has been dedicated towards dealing with my anxiety and depression issues stemming from my post partum period, with medication and lifestyle changes. When I discovered running, it really helped my mental health issues.
I am just writing this to explain why my prolapse hasn't been at the forefront of my mind. I was so consumed with anxiety, depression, the stress and changes of having a new baby (plus I have 4 stepkids), and working full time......I just didn't think about my prolapse. I guess in that way, I sort of accepted it for awhile and went on with my life. Then when I started to feel like it was getting worse this past week, I knew I had to make some changes, to pay closer attention to my posture. I don't want to rule running out of my life, but I suppose I need to moderate it, and make sure I'm doing it correctly.
kiko
December 3, 2013 - 4:51am
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I definitely don't think you
I definitely don't think you should stop running - I totally understand the stress relief and elation that comes from a run. Nothing beats it, right?
You don't NEED to run on your forefoot/midfoot. It's a theory that's out there that many people have found useful. I personally changed my running from heel to fore to try to alleviate an old running injury - it hasn't totally solved the problem and I managed to give myself Achilles tendonitis for a month when I switched technique very quickly. So go slowly with changes :-)
Surviving60
December 3, 2013 - 7:16am
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Running
Caterpillar, I am glad that you will continue to run but that you will moderate your former routine a little bit. I understand that runners need to run; but that is, after all, an emotional/spiritual need above all. Physically....you are young now, but 2 or 3 decades down the road, I don't want you to wish that you had subjected your joints and other parts to a little less constant impact over the years. - Surviving (an old person!)
Christine
December 3, 2013 - 11:55am
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impact
I have always only run a little bit at a time. I'm not sure why, but perhaps my large bone structure is just too much to carry on long-distance runs. Or maybe I'm lazy.
Toe (forefoot)-first running leverages lumbar curvature much more so than heel-strike-first. The reason being that the entire back side of the body is elevated and not pulling down the tailbone. For me, the effect is that my pelvic organs are pushed down and forward against my lower belly.
Steve Levin and others say we have a gravity-free body, with the sacrum as the hub of the wheel. I believe in women the center of mass is actually the cervix. But COM is highly subject to change depending on how you carry your body. It seems logical that we can only be gravity-free when we are in our intended form. Barefoot running and jumping in WW posture feels gravity-free to me. I have not experienced any joint pain, although the ligaments at the base of my toes will cramp if I do not adequately stretch out my calves. I love to dance up on my toes (Irish, Scottish) and this is probably why I took so well to forefoot running. This is all a great experiment, really, and it will be so interesting to see how we all are doing in our 80s and 90s.
Christine
kiko
December 3, 2013 - 6:03pm
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Research article
There's a very interesting article on plosone.org called
"Variation in Foot Strike Patterns during Running among Habitually Barefoot Populations" . It's a bit of a read and raises more questions than answers. Worth reading if you're experimenting with how to run.
caterpillar7
December 3, 2013 - 7:55pm
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thank you all for the
thank you all for the helpful feedback and advice. I did not go running or work out today, I made the decision to take a day off, which is unusual for me. I think I probably need more rest days then I currently give myself. In the past I would run everyday for like 2 weeks with no break. So tomorrow I plan to go to the gym. I may use the elliptical instead of running, or try the bike.
thank you for the info on how to run on your toes, I'm going to pay more attention to how my feet hit the ground, it's something I've never really considered before.
another chapter
December 4, 2013 - 6:53pm
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Caterpillar7 I think the bike
Caterpillar7 I think the bike would be a great cardio workout for you. This is an excellent way to cross train and still get your endorphin high. In addition it works different muscles and is non impact, so a win win in all areas for you :) It is always best to cross train so as not to develop repetitive stress injuries. In this case that old saying "variety is the spice of life" works well!
caterpillar7
December 6, 2013 - 10:04pm
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Thank you. I am definitely
Thank you. I am definitely considering the bike. There are a few different models at my gym. I will need to find one that is best suited for the posture. I took today off from working out. I only ran 16 miles this week as opposed to 30 so I'm taking it pretty easy.