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I'm not sure what splinting is now.I won't do anything but sit and wait.

Hi Cleo - splinting means inserting one or two clean fingers into the vagina, to push back the rectocele bulge and allow the stool to pass. Maybe you could try this next time you are having a problem, to see if the stool is in fact getting stuck there. At least this would identify the problem.

You've been commenting on the forum for a number of years, Cleo, and I know you have had some ups and downs in your life, and with your prolapse. You have been determined to avoid surgery, and I'm happy about that! But I must also say that I've never been very clear on whether or not you are actively using the Whole Woman posture throughout your day, to help you position the organs and improve your symptoms. - Surviving

Yes Surviving 60, I have done splinting and the posture. I also do the exercises in Christine's book. My back has always been very straight so it's easy for me to maintain a good posture. I have put on some weight lately and I feel better this morning as I've been to the loo. I had constipation. I ate too many chocolates. It was really painful as I have a rectal prolapse too. Doctors often gave me pills that blocked me up. I'm sure I would be better if I hadn't taken them years ago.

Cleo, I want to ask you a little more about your posture. Whole Woman posture restores the natural lower lumbar curvature and gives the pelvic organs room to move into the relaxed lower belly where they belong. This process of restoring the natural alignment of the organs is what helps us with our various symptoms. So, when you say simply that you have a "very straight" back, that doesn't tell us whether or not you actually practice WW posture. Let's take it a step at a time. First question, do you keep your belly relaxed at all times? - Surviving

Hi Surviving60, I keep my stomach relaxed if I can. I feel a bit like it's a bit big though at times. I only weigh 56 kilos now. It's a bit too much weight but I'm trying to diet. In answer to I think it was Fab , Hi Fab, yes I do have a high fibre diet. I only eat fish and plenty of fresh vegetables. I am mostly vegetarian. My mother too had diverticulitis but she died from a cerebral haemorrhage at 85. She had shivers and had to take antibiotics to clear her diverticulitis. Also sometimes she found it hard to swallow because of diverticulum in the throat I think it was at times. I felt so sorry for her as she had polio years ago and scoliosis. Anyway she was a happy woman. My brother had a stroke and I have been dealing with that too. So sorry Christine to hear Lanny had a Stroke. I hope he's better now. My husband has diverticulitis and his hernia is now fixed with mesh. It does work for men sometimes. Sorry I have put all this in here but I can't find Fab's letter to me. I will after. Well I will keep on trying with the posture. I feel like I'm done for having all these problems. On Embarrassing Bodies prolapse repair never seems to work. I saw Tree Ladies rectal prolapse page. I went through to it and I have heard of all these repairs before. They are a bit scary but I suppose they help some ladies. I was just dusting and I read the poem so I will relax a bit now. I do get stressed.

Cleo, I think the next big thing for you to work on is posture. You must train yourself to hold that relaxed-belly stance all the time! With time and practice, it can become automatic. Visualize that lovely lower lumbar curvature. Visualize the organs held forward in the hollow of the relaxed belly. Chest up, shoulders down (not back). Practice practice!

Next question, do you jiggle/firebreathe? - Surviving