I'm confused, discouraged...am I in the right place?

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I am a new member. I am unsure of where to post. I have had a vaginal hysterectomy 15 years ago. I am 62. I had 5 vaginal births with episiotomies and tearing. No one told me about prolapse. I have worn a pessary for years. This whole thing just gets overwhelming. I realize that this is not a cure but a way of coping and doing the best we can. I am all for that. I would like advice about how to start, what to buy, what to read. I really do want some advice and help. I live in the Midwest USA and there are not many places here to go for help. Thanks in advance.

Hi gma15,
I did respond to your post here:

https://www.wholewoman.com/forum/comment/49651#comment-49651

We usually find your posts no matter where you put them, but yes the hysterectomy forum is a appropriate place too.