31 and have uretheral caruncle

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Hello first post. As titled says i have uretheral caruncle. Ive posted in here as ive been told its more common women gone through memopause.
I have a mild prolaspe since birth of my son 2yrs ago. Last month i felt this were worse than normal so i took the mirror to see what was wrong. To my shock i noticed this black cigerratte burn mark. I panicked and went to my doctor last month. He said not to worry and looked like haematoma from the forceps delivery -which i couldnt understand as never seen mark before. Doc told keep eye on on it though. Last saturday i started to bleed and as days went on. Pains got worse so i got mirror out again. This mass was much bigger anf changed to red .got to drs and he advised to go a&e as referral to gyne would take too long. So seen a gyne consultant and he told me hes 90% uretheral caruncle. I need an urgent app to have it removed and biospy taken. Im bleeding all the time now. Im so sore. I feel so heavy and bruised down below. And im also still worried about cancer.. ive 2 small children and i need to be here . Ive tried looking online about this happening people my own age and i cant get any info. Be nice to talk to someone who this also. And any info re surgery
Sorry havent proof read im sure theres lots of mistakes

Hi Ain331,
What you are describing here is a little beyond what we normally help with on this forum. You may want to book a consult with Christine and see what she would have to say about this.