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Surviving60
December 2, 2018 - 4:32am
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Chickenfeet
I'm not an expert on this, but I think in your situation I might try some zinc-based diaper-rash ointment on the bad spots, and cover loosely with gauze or something to help prevent the scratching. Look for a good natural brand that is free of unwanted additives like parabens.
Soaking the bed every single night, just seems like no way to live, for either one of you. If she is incontinent day and night, I think you need to figure out a way to keep her in diapers. We can usually solve a baby's diaper-rash problems without taking them completely out of diapers; hopefully you can do the same. The less fussing over things, the better, for both of you. - Surviving
Aging gracefully
December 2, 2018 - 1:23pm
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Hi chickenfeet,
Hi chickenfeet,
I agree with surviving about keeping it simple. I can tell you from a nursing home perspective what we did to keep incontinent residents clean and from developing skin issues. We kept them in diapers/depends during the day. When toileting, we would use wet wipes or washed them with a mild soap and water, drying the skin softly, usually patting it rather than rubbing. Followed up with a barrier cream when needed, which was whatever we had available at the time. I used many different kinds at the different places I worked.
In the better nursing homes we had these nice sized cloth pads on the bed, and we would layer about three of them strategically so as not to get the bed wet. We liked our residents to get a little air at night to let the skin breath a little. For heavy wetters, we would just pull the pad up between the legs a little to catch the urine so it didn't get all over the sheets.
Hope that helps some.