Prolapse...then pregnancy??? Is it ok?

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Okay, so I found my prolapse roughly 11 weeks ago, 2 weeks after giving birth to my 3rd baby. I have a cystocele and rectocele. At first I was very, very depressed. But since starting antidepressents, I haven't been so bothered by the prolapse.

I thought I was quite sure I had finished having babies (I'm 23 and #1 because of the prolapse and #2 I thought he didn't want anymore and #3 it was baby #3) but....
after a good heart to heart with my partner, he is still keen on #4 and wants to try in the future (as in within the next year or two) for one more bub....which yeah I'm keen on one more... one more bubba for me I could handle

But, where do I stand with the prolapse? Can I still have another baby? And if I do, does it need to be via c-sect? Is the pregnancy at more risk of miscarrage due to my prolapse? I'm not too sure but would love just one more baby?

Please if you have any comments, please add? :) Thanks in advance

Hi Mummy- to -three,
Go to the main page and click on readers write then on birth stories.
You will read about some of the women on this forum who have had babies after they
had a prolapse.
Try to find some of the posts by granola mom and full of grace.
Jane(full of grace) has two pregnancies after prolapse.
I am sure some of them will answer your post.
Regards
Flora

I went on to have baby number four after finding a prolapse. the long story short, is that I waited until I felt that my prolapse had stabilized. things actually improved for me during the pg and even after delivery never got any worse than the worst it was before hand. now (almost 11 months pp) I am back to my prepg baseline, with no regrets.
so I think another pg is definitely possible. but I will say that I worked very hard to keep myself as healthy as I could. made sure I was getting enough sleep and good food, was seeing a chiro regularly to help keep my spine in good shape, was walking on the treadmill every single day until week 38 when I just couldn't any more, and birthed with my prolapses in mind (in my case it was on hands & knees and no pushing).

I havent heard anything pointing towards increased risk or miscarriage with prolapse, or needing a c-section either. but maybe give yourself a bit more time to stabilize things before taking on the stress of another pg. just my opinion.

There's a new post "third trimester update" from mumwithone that should give you lots of hope!!!
i know my physio said she's had lots of women go on to have babies again. she said that none of them were worse after than they were before (well, once those first few weeks of healing get out of the way i imagine!). In the UK they don't advise c-section with prolapse--they see it as unnecessary surgery.

she's very positive about it. the surgeon i initially saw said he always advises women to hav all the babies they want--he says you'll never regret that, you'll regret not doing it... (what a wise man for a prolapse specialist!!! he is a rarity i think...)

there are lots of great stories here of women who went on to have babies...pop and all. so definately doable.
how many women has over the last centuries and been fine...you have far more wisdom and tools for well beign than they ever had!!!

kiki