When I first “cracked the code” on stabilizing and reversing prolapse, and wrote and published Saving the Whole Woman, I set up this forum. While I had finally gotten my own severe uterine prolapse under control with the knowledge I had gained, I didn’t actually know if I could teach other women to do for themselves what I had done for my condition.
So I just started teaching women on this forum. Within weeks, the women started writing back, “It’s working! I can feel the difference!”
From that moment on, the forum became the hub of the Whole Woman Community. Unfortunately, spammers also discovered the forum, along with the thousands of women we had been helping. The level of spamming became so intolerable and time-consuming, we regretfully took the forum down.
Technology never sleeps, however, and we have better tools today for controlling spam than we did just a few years ago. So I am very excited and pleased to bring the forum back online.
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Christine Kent
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Christine
May 20, 2008 - 4:47pm
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success vs failure
Hi Mae,
The problem with prolapse surgery (as well as gynecologic literature), which many doctors will fully admit at this time, is that "success" is never, ever quantified. So yes, perhaps the bulges are gone - for a few years - but what about all the other things that should be measured as part of true "success"? Like chronic pain; straining to urinate; urge incontinence; lifetime need for laxatives; sexual disability; inability to squat, sit cross-legged, or spread your legs; far-reaching endocrine effects; irreversible and progressive musculoskeletal deformity; depression; drug addiction; divorce; isolation, etc. etc. etc.
This is the Real face of reconstructive surgery - and one that the profession chooses, year after year, to ignore.
I'm going to write a blog post on the state of medical science and informed consent. Look for it within the next few days.
:) Christine
Blue
May 20, 2008 - 6:24pm
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One study...
Hello Mae,
Experiencing a bit of a rough time of late pushed me to do an internet search earlier in the day using the search words "prolapse recurrence following prolapse repair" and I stumbled upon the following report (FWIW, the study is a bit dated.):
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15547521
It's interesting to note that the reported results were from 1-year post-op follow-ups.
~Blue
annaf
May 20, 2008 - 10:39pm
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surgeries
I have just read the objective and conclusion and my anger grew! How can those surgeries be legal if they have such a poor outcome! I can't understand how thousands of women are cut without solid results. Are we all guinea-pigs?
louiseds
May 20, 2008 - 10:40pm
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Removal of uterus with bladder hitch
Hi Mae
This is the surgery I was offered. He was going to do some tape procedure too. No doubt I would have been totally hitched up by the time he had finished. Goodness knows what that would have felt like. However, I had found this site before the consultation, so I took it all with a grain of salt and high-tailed it out of there. Even if he had said 20% risk of re-prolapse (which he didn't!!) a likelihood of 1 in 5 of further prolapse would have chased me away.
That means that 1 in 5 women who have this procedure are walking around with prolapse again AND a heap of scar tissue and foreign material inside them as well. No thanks. The doctor gets to walk away, or make more money from repeating the surgery. The 1 woman in 5 gets to stagger around with the results for the rest of her life and experience the cascade of secondary effects that follow.
Interesting link. More food for the mill.
It is all very well blaming the doctor. Women also need to realise that they can say no, and they can investigate these things for themselves. What is it that puts the doctor in such an influential position and intelligent women behaving like lambs to the slaughter? It is just so sad, and it needs to be changed.
Cheers
Louise
Mae
May 21, 2008 - 8:18am
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sucess vs. failure
Thanks Christine. I'm looking forward to reading your post.
Regards,
Mae
Mae
May 21, 2008 - 8:45am
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Removal of uterus with bladder hitch
Hi Louise,
I totally agree with you about the doctors. I think, at least for me, a lot of it has to do with age. When I was younger I just believed the doctors knew what was best for me. As I got older (and perhaps wiser?) I came to realize that doctors were just people who were out there doing their job and trying to make money like everyone else. I also realized that their opinion was not necessarily the same as the next persons and it was best for me to get several opinions, then decide for myself what was best for me.
So, it is the young girls I worry about. So many of them will put their blind faith in what the "good doctor" tells them. I'm not sure how we can reach them because I don't believe POP is ever even discussed as a possibilty by an OB/Gyn or anyone else. I think, unless you know someone who's had POP, the first time one hears about it is when she is told she has one.
I also think one in five is not such great odds but it was clear my gynocologist thought it was. Scary stuff...
So you and I were supposed to have the same kind of surgery! Thank goodness we found this website and didn't!!
Warmest regards,
Mae
Mae
May 21, 2008 - 9:21am
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Thanks Blue!
Hi Blue,
I finally had a chance to check out that website. Very interesting! Makes me very happy I am controlling my POP on my own. I can only imagine how devastating it must be for the women who undergo surgery for POP to find out they need yet another surgery...
I hope you are feeling better about your POP. Keep reading. There's always so much to learn and different things to try to determine what works best for you!
Have a great day and thanks again.
Warmest regards,
Mae