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louiseds
June 8, 2008 - 4:39am
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Your poor body
Dear Ama
Welcome to the world of Wholewoman. I am sure we will be able to help you to find your way through this. You have so many bits that are not quite right.
I can only implore you to keep doing what you are doing. Every week must feel like an eternity to you, cos recovery is so slow.
We reckon that it takes a woman's body at least 12 months to recover from birth, some say longer. You are now 7 months and it sounds as if your body has made some significant progress. It sounds like you have also found some worthwhile therapies to help you along the way, and figured out how to manage your bowel contents. Women here know *all* about constipation and managing it!! ;-)
I have had good success waking up pelvic floor muscles with electrical stimulation after a pregnancy that started with me swollen up like a balloon and pelvic floor muscles that were shot before week 10 of the pregnancy. The nerves eventually responded by themselves and I have no trouble now. It is very good news that you experience no pressure for several hours after a session. Something is not totally destroyed, and will no doubt get better for longer as time goes on!!
Only time and some hard work will tell how well you will ultimately recover.
I am familiar with pudendal nerve entrapment and posted about it here after attending a seminar at our big women's hospital. Use the search box at left to find it. Also check out www.tipna.org and their Forums if you haven't yet done that.
It seems that most PNE happens after pelvic surgery, which is one of the big negatives to surgery, as you have found out. Christine Kent's theory is that surgery alters the pelvic structures and geometry irreversibly, so Wholewoman techniques may not even work for a woman who has had surgery. A woman needs all her pelvic organs to support her own pelvic structure.
My theory following on from that is, for a woman who has had no surgery, that Wholewoman posture will lessen the tension on the pudendal nerve because WW posture allows the organs to move forward and take their weight off the pelvic floor and perineum. The perineum can then rise spontaneously and reduce the tension on the nerve which is the cause of the pain and discomfort. The new surgical procedure for pudendal nerve release does the same thing by cutting away bits of ligament and giving the nerve more room to move. I suspect that, as you have all your organs, you can release the tension on this nerve just with postural changes, all by yourself!
You may be able to lessen your discomfort considerably, just by using WW posture, though it may take time for the hurting to stop, cause it is a nervous system thing. So go to www.wholewoman.com and check out the FAQ's. You can find out more about this new way of looking at female pelvic anatomy and how to manage your body's pelvic problems yourself by purchasing Saving the Whole Woman, by Christine Kent, *2nd edition* . This isn't a hard sell. It is just a darned good book, and has the endorsements to prove it.
Meanwhile, keep loving that baby and breastfeeding, do some reading, amend your posture and clothing, eat well, and let your body do its own healing for quite a few months yet.
Call back with more questions and comments. You are in good company here.
Cheers
Louise
Christine
June 9, 2008 - 12:36am
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levator ani syndrome
Hi Ama,
Just to add a couple of things to Louise’s response to you…this sounds like classic “levator ani syndrome”, which can be brought about by the sort of trauma you sustained. Management is usually conservative and I think the recent suggestion in this forum of saltwater sitz baths would be very good for you. Although painful, LAS is generally benign and dissipates over time.
One of our members, Mommynow, had a very traumatic first delivery and still suffers the tremendous heaviness in the back wall that your describe. You might email her.
Also…check out my blog titled “Long term implications of surgical laceration of the perineum and anal sphincter” for information concerning surgical response to these conditions.
Wishing a complete recovery for you,
Christine