rectocele 7.5 mo PostPartum universal prolapse

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I posted several months ago after the birth of my 4th child in January (see my thread of the wonderful apendectomy & infection that followed). I have been a member (though very inactive as of late) since 2004 when I became pregnant with #3.

I've been eating a more organic diet. I, however, am a protein type...got to have meat and it does not affect my prolapse. My body functions best with all fresh foods, including meat. I sit on the floor most of the time, mindful of the posture. To rehibilitate my midsection, I do a little bit of "core" work, but never on my back. I do it in the side and front plank position on the floor and on the exercise ball. These exercises also strenghten my upper body, arms and shoulder, which helps when caring for my brute of a baby (over 20 pounds at her 6 mo check and breast fed only!). The exercises from the first edition of Saving the Whole Woman are still my favorite to really make me feel lifted in the pelvic area. (I learned them first and remember them easily)

Lots of TMI about rectocele:
I am self-diagnosed with all 3 prolapses. The uterus is the least, followed by bladder, and rectocele is worst. Aside from a nasty hemroid from being forced to push on my back and the return of two abnormally sickening menstrual cycles, I am happy to say that all prolapses are very stable. I feel the rectocele bulge into the vaginal area when it is full; I experiment with leaning forward and back and splinting it with a finger in the vaginal area to help expell all of it. Sometimes it feels as if I have not emptied completely, but I go ahead and go about my business and forget to think of it until another urge hits and then I am able to finish. With four kids, a home, an almost full-time teaching job (I'm out of the house for 6.5 hours per day), I don't have much time to think about this. And you know what? That helps. I remember when I first discovered I had prolapsed, that draggy feeling, pressure, and feeling that a tampon was falling out, I was so scared and distraught. I couldn't help but think of it all the time. Visiting surgical websites and pelvic floor surgery forums did not nothing to boost my spirits. But then I found this site. It normalized the condition and I realized I could live with this. Occassionally I do have stress incontinence from the bladder if I get to coughing, but even that is rare. I try to get a lot of my water intake from my foods especially when I am going to be in a position where I can get to the bathroom easily and that has helped tremendously. I hardly ever experience the incontinence (it's happened maybe 4 times in the last 5 months and it's barely anything). It's part of life and part of the changes that occur to the body when it gives life to another. It's a sacrifice and let me tell you my 8, 6, almost 4, and 7.5 month older are worth the sacrifice.

Take care everyone!

I've thought of you several times over the last few days and was going to email. Thanks ever so much for the update, as I'm sure I wasn't the only one wondering how you all faired post hospital, infection, etc. What a joy to hear that you made it through to continue breastfeeding! You're such a champ and, as usual, I'm in awe at all you do. I will always look forward to sharing with you through the years! Love, Christine

Great stuff Jane. I too have been wondering how you are going. Thankyou for filling us in. You seem to have reached a similar state of POP stability that I have. Isn't it great? I think you joined before me. Give your gorgeous brute of a daughter a big hug for me. Your story of her traumatic birth and subsequent events was very sobering. Thank goodness you had the first three lovely homebirths beforehand, and you are both alive and well. A good, safe homebirth environment is one of my requests when I am back on the planet next time around.

Cheers

Louise

thanks for dropping in, I'm always glad to hear how you're doing

and wow, 20lb at 6 mo! hooray for mama-milk! I'm so impressed by how you managed to keep the bf thing going with all that you went through.

thanks again for the update, I hope you continue to do well and enjoy those babies :)

ps- just noticed we had our kiddos on almost the same schedule, mine are 9,7, almost 5 and 16 mo. and yes, well worth the sacrifice!

Christine, It is so good to be thought of! :) I have thought about you and this group often as well. However, with all I am involved in half the time I forget to the feed the cat-- don't worry he reminds me :). The one benefit of my local hospital wss the lactation department. If it wasn't for them, I would not have breastfed her during the infection (many of the nurses who had NOT nursed their babies talked bad about me. Thankfully not to my face and God provided me with advocates to my VBAC and to my nursing despite the illness who helped me to continue nursing). My days are crazy busy, but I do enjoy the fact that I get a couple extra hours in the morning this school year. I will continue to pop in here from time to time. I am so grateful for your work Christine. You saved me from a repeat c-section with #3 and therefore, a repeat with #4. I cannot imagine what it would have been like if I had had a c-section and then had to turn around and have an apendectomy. Things are weird in the digestion area since that event. Sometimes it feels like my intestines are turning inside out. The plank "core" stretching I do helps with that feeling. If I go a week without it, my side starts to tighten up and I feel sick to my stomach. Very strange. I assume it's scar tissue. continue to take care adn I look forward to the new video when it's ready. I am sorry to read that your filming got sabatoged.
Jane

Louise, Thank you for your reply. If only I had had 3 homebirths. My first birth was an unecessary c-section that propelled me to homebirth. I am grateful for what that experience taught me, but still nothing beats birthing in your own territory and to get to be the first one to hold your baby immediately after the exit. Jane

Granolamom, it would appear that I followed you in having children. :) Nursing is such a rewarding experience. When I got home from work today, I crawled onto my bed with my little butterball and just relaxed as she happily nursed away. What a great way to reconnect!
Jane

One would have been fine for me. :-(

L

I am so glad you posted - I have thought of many times after your original post after your baby was born. It is so heartening to hear that all has stabilized! You deserve all the wonderful cuddle time with your baby after all you went through in the beginning -- enjoy it! I join you in gratitude for this work. I also wonder where I would be without the inspiration that it can be done, and life can be lived well without surgery. Yea for Christine, and yea for all of us here!!

Blessings to all,

Marie

just to second this...you are such inspiration! to all the women wondering if you can do it again after prolapse, here you are!
so glad to hear you are doing so well--thank you for sharing.

and i agree about nursing...it is just lovely. nothing beats a snuggling nursing cuddle. my 20 month old is not so snuggly about it now, generally trying to play or look at a book at the same time, but still lovely all the same ;-)

kiki