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mom30
September 23, 2009 - 7:43pm
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For me, I usually after a
For me, I usually after a bm, just reach my right thumb(freshly washed) up the vagina and feel if there is any "lumps" up there. If so, I just guide them right down and they come out. I really don't love it, but it really makes that "kinda have to go but can't feeling" go away (but not always).
louiseds
September 24, 2009 - 8:23pm
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Splinting
Hi Queenmother
My experience is slightly different from Mom30. If I get constipated with hard, dry stool, I find that Mom30's method gradually works, with physically moving the stool down, but if it is the sort of constipation where the rectum fills and half-empties but I feel that there is still a lot in there, I find that your method is usually more productive. I find that pressing down on the perineum does something like straightening out the last bend in the pipe. I keep my thumb there for a few seconds then remove it. Then I change position and often I can feel it come down by itself. The more I do it the more I understand about how my bowel behaves.
Your method usually works better if my bowel just stops sending it down. The peristalsis just seems to get very weak sometimes. Straightening the pipe is often enough to get enough movement. It is often stress-related.
If you have a look at a diagram of the digestive system you will see that there is a sharp bend just before the rectum. I think this is meant as a 'brake' to stop so much pressure coming down on the rectum when it is full. This kink may be sometimes be the bit that protrudes into the vagina, maybe even bending over further and down into the space behind the vagina. Splinting just striaghtens it out sufficiently for normal bowel function to take over.
When the fascia surrounding the vagina and the bowel and rectum become damaged I guess the bowel can slip around all over the place. It's not the same every time for me. My bowel has a personality of its own! ;-)
Cheers
Louise