Pessary vs. sea sponge

Body: 

I have been diagnosed with a cystocele prolapse with the uterus going along for the ride. I have decided, after reading the first few chapters of Christine's book, definitely not to have the surgery, but I think I should try a pessary or sea sponge. I would love input as to which one you guys think is best. Also, on May 11, 2006, UKmummy wrote that she knows of a great nurse practitioner who specializes in pessary fitting, as well as other methods of nonsurgical management for prolapse for anyone living in Arizona. I live in Phoenix and would love input from her. I am really depressed because of this prolapse thing and feel afraid to get up and do things and be active. I hope I get over this. Blair

Blair,

Welcome to the forum. I do not know anything about sea sponges, but I'm sure you'll hear from other members who are familiar with them. I was diagnosed with moderate/severe cystocele several months ago. I tried a silicone cube pessary which did not work for me. It was difficult to insert, almost impossible to remove and uncofortable while it was in. My nurse-practitioner did not think any other type would work for me, but I insisted on trying the donut pessary (I'm not sure why). I have been using one ever since. It provides tremendous relief from the feeling of dragging and heaviness, it is easy to insert, remove, and clean. You will probably have to try a few different types (and sizes) of pessaries to find a good fit, but it's definitey worth the trouble.

I empathize with your feelings of depression and inability to get up and do things. I felt that way initially (and still do on occasion) -in fact, for a while I actually felt afraid of my own body. It takes persistence and determination to take control for yourself, implement lifestyle changes and develop confidence in your body and your ability to manage your condition without surgery. Be patient with yourself - life is good, even with prolapse!

I wish you all the best (:

Jean

Thanks so much for your reply, Jean. I was wondering what I would do if the pessary didn't work. He said the ring pessary would be the one for me, so I'll remember to ask him to try another one if it's necessary. I've never had a good posture so I need to work hard on that. Thanks much,
Blair

Yeah Blair....................I am so happy to have someone else here too, not that I would wish for you to have prolapse!

Yes I did see a great nurse practitoner, and although I don't need a pessery for now, I am comforted that she is there as I know it can be hard to find someone for this. She was super and expert at fitting pesseries, (that is pretty much all she does). She also has a great way or normalising everything!

I will try to e-mail you through the contact section, if not could you e-mail me? I would love to chat.

Look forward to getting in touch!

Hugs,

Michelle.