new to pessary

Body: 

only had pessary for 4 days feels great when in hard to remove Dr. said to remove every night i also have to put in premarin estrogen every night i am 63 he wanted to do surgery till i brought up pessary are there any hints to removing it made easier

Grandmajo,

What type of pessary do you have? I use a donut pessary, and my only advice re: making removal easier (aside from lubrication) is to relax - if muscles are tightened, they hold pessary in place. Try sitting on toilet or squatting, relaxing as though to void, and try pulling pessary out while seated/squatting. Just be prepared to retrieve your pessary from the toilet! Good luck (-:

Jean

Probably standing with knees bent, sort of a slight squat, and slightly stooped forward is easier for me to remove than lying on my back. Actually I always did it on my back on the bed until one day my husband was there and we were going to have sex and I didn't want him to see me remove it, so I did it in the bathroom standing up and discovered it's actually easier that way.

There is that "ouch" moment. For me it makes it easy if I pull very quickly past that, the way you'd yank a bandaide off fast. It gets the ouch moment over with quicker.

If you have the doughnut type, I have found that it can be hard to grab hold of, so I will hook it with a finger over the top portion, then yank.

But I suspect each woman needs to best figure it out herself and may differ in how it works best for them.