new,27, really scared,is there hope?

Hi there..
My name is Shannon and I am 27 (never had kids) and have had health problems since I was 15. I have fibromyalgia, IBS, bipolar disorder,and interstitial cystitis (bladder disorder). I have been trying really hard to get my life together from all those health problems and havent been able to work in many years. I have lost faith in western medicine because I have been drugged up so much and all those drugs and every procedure done to me and my bladder has only made things worse, so i started trying to take my power back and holistically heal myself a few years ago. I started weening off of several of my psych meds which made me like a zombie and thats when I discovered my prolapse. I always thought that the discomfort in my bladder was just because of my bladder disorder (which is when the walls of you bladder are bloodied and full of ulcers and deteriorating) but then I realized that everything was just 'falling out' down there. It has been like this since I was a teenager (it runs in my family) but it has gotten worse. I am soo scared. The only time things ever seem ok is when I am inverted (upside down) and everything seems to fall back onto place. My intuition has told me not to get the surgeries despite what everyone tells me but i am so scared. Despite all of my other health problems, and the bladder disorder REALLY hurts..this prolapse is the scariest. I know that if the prolapsed was addressed the actual urinary symptoms that I though were simply form my disorder would be alot better. I know that if would have addressed it earlier that it would not have gotten this bad. I feel like crying right now..I am sorry to sound like a sook. I still live with my mom because I have not been able to get out and be independent and work with all of my health problems..can this prolapse really be helped? any help or guidance would be sooo appreciate you have no idea. thank you so much for your time..
love shannon