Help me - anyone

Body: 

I've been going to doctor to doctor trying to figure out the "bulge" feeling and tightness is going on in my rectum.
The obgyn felt it but was unsure of what it was - perineum has bluge inside rectum there is a bluge like object I have to push on or move in order to have a bm. It is certainly obstructing the bowel.

I was told to fix my bowel habits - suffering from constipation - often. Trying to manage that.

I lift and do love exercising but it makes it worse. My lower back is tense, when I bend over it is worse. Urinating is hard to do as well.

My obgyn wants me to come back in to check for a rectocele. I am beyond freaked out. I'm 28 years old and have been relatively healthy my entire life.

I'm uncomfortable all the time and feel as if I'm sitting on a ball bc I am. I just don't know what it is. I looked up rectocele and it is terrifying - surgery, non-surgery methods?

Can I ever gain my body back? My life in fitness?

Please advice.. I am beyond worried.

Hi needtheadvice and welcome. Sounds like an ordinary rectocele to me, which is no cause for panic. Extremely common, and can be managed with posture and tools have been developed by Christine Kent over the years. Maybe by now you have had a chance to look around the site and see what we are about. Surgery should be out of the question. It is promoted as a "cure" for prolapse but it can cause many more problems than it solves, and will have a limited life; once you start down that road, things will get worse. Do some reading on the site, and watch this:

https://wholewoman.com/newpages/video/ww101.html

Christine explains it better than anyone else can. Check it out and then come back with your questions. I have been managing cystocele and rectocele for over 6 years with the WW work. I thank my lucky stars I found it before heading off in all the goofy directions that docs will send you (PT/kegels, pessary, surgery, or just living with it). You will be OK. You will learn to love your body again.....probably even more than before, and you can be as active as you want. - Surviving

Hi, I'm sure your questions & anxieties will ring a bell for many of us who are on this forum; whoc have nearly all experienced prolapse. Pelvic organ prolapse is something very few people know about it seems, & the unknown is often scary. In fact pelvic organ prolapse is very common & there is a common sense treatment approach which is safe, natural, healthy & effective. The Whole Woman approach. This is based on a good understanding of the female form & pelvic alignment. Once this has been understood, the WW approach just makes common sense. At the core is healthy posture, lifestyle, diet & exercise. It's a holistic approach & as such becomes a way of life.

This approach is actually very simple. It require effort on our part. We have to maintain good health, posture, exercise, optimise happiness levels etc. This is our responsibility towards looking after ourselves. However, it's also very simple. Women often say to me, re the posture especially, "Is that it?" it's not actually rocket science. It's fundamentally a self help approach, once you've understood it, how to practice posture & exercises etc.

Many women find it helpful, especially in the early stages, to get some resources &/or teaching, to understand, practice & maintain the WW treatment. Look up the WW store, find your local teachers if you're lucky enough to live near any, check out the library, blogs, videos, on-line courses… There's never been so many options!

Good luck. You're young & your bodies capacity to heal is immense. Have confidence & my advice is definitely try the WW approach first.
Love, wholewomanuk