Question about balms

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*Topic moved - originally posted by ChannelID*

I am very interested in these but my problem is burning and irritation in/on my rectum. Sometimes when the urine comes out it seems diverted (doubtless by pressure inside from the rectocele) and it runs backwards over my rectum. Even though I wash afterwards there is often a burning and pain there from the constant irritation - also from the occasional leakage during the day which I am not even aware of until I feel the uncomfortable dampness and burning. Would the vaginal balm help with that or is there something else I can use? Thanks in advance!

Cynthia

*From Christine*
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All the balms are good for the anal canal and opening too! Vulva Balm particularly for irritation and itching. :)

Hi ChannellD

Sounds a bit strange. My first thought was, are you wearing panty liners or pads to catch the little leaks? If so, it may be simple 'nappy rash', ie the ammonia in urine which collects on the pad and dissipates over the whole pad. The pad stays wet and it, combines with something (can't remember) in the little bits of faecal matter around your anus, making acid, which burns. I sometimes get a bit of this late in a period, when I don't realise there is a little bit of leakage. If I don't wear a pad it is obvious! If this is the case, both peri balm and vulva balm do a good job as a barrier that stops further burning and helps the skin to heal.

The other thought is (TMI coming up), can't remember how old your children are. You don't have worms, do you? They will cause itching and inflammation around the anus, worse at night. I used to get them sometimes when our kids were little. I ended up treating myself as well and they finally went away. Having children is a great equaliser!

Cheers

Louise

another thought is thrush. i never knew till recently you can get thrush in the rectal area. makes sense--it's in our bowels, and that's where it comes out! also babies get nappy rash thrush, why wouldn't we?

alemama suggested grapefruit seed extract. dilute a few drops in water and wipe on a few times a day. works brilliantly! might help? then i find the balms soothes the irritation caused by the thrush, and keep the skin happy ;-)

Hi ChannellD

If your rectocele is making your urine stream divert, and the stream ends up dribbling backwards, maybe you could look at sitting more forward on the toilet. It sounds to me like the way you sit on the toilet is pushing your bladder back, and bang into the rectocele. Your anus would be lower than your urethral outlet which tells me your pelvis is tipped back. Hence the flopped-back bladder. There is a picture in both editions of STWW that shows a good posture for sitting on the toilet so you can evacuate bowel or bladder with these organs sitting in the right place. It is basically Wholewoman sitting posture and it can make using your bowels and bladder much easier and more effective, precisely because it repositions your organs back where they belong, and tightens the pelvic floor muscles so they support the organs, from the back, in their correct positions. You will probably find that the urine stream is narrower as well, because the muscles around it are tight, and that the urine goes straight down. The more force the urine comes out with the more likely it is that you are able to empty your bladder completely. If the urine is dribbling out you might not be able to empty the bladder properly. It needs to empty properly at least once every day so the bladder gets a good flush out of stale urine, which helps prevent infections.

Cheers

Louise