New person, that's me, has a few questions and could use some help

Body: 

I have had a bladder sling (made from a pig) 10 years ago, that would have made me 54, and now they tell me I need another operation.... NO WAY..so first question is will your excersizes help since I've already had a previous operation?

Question 2 is Does prolapse mean just fallen inside or does it mean fallen outside my body (which mine is not)?

Last question is I am just tired of all the leaking continually, which I assume your excersizes will cure, yes?

Thanks from a newcomer,

Jett

Welcome Jett.

Prolapse is sliding out of place. Doctors usually say "sliding down" because they see the pelvis as a bowl with a plughole at the bottom, covered by the pelvic floor. We would say it is a "sliding back" because we see the pelvis as a vertical ring with a window at the back called the pelvic floor, and some bony bits sticking out, which define our shape and act as framework for our muscles.

Have a feel of your own pelvic bones and see what position your pelvic bones are in.

The doctor should have explained to you the different degrees of prolapse as he assessed you. There are a couple of different scales. The most common one goes from degree 1, which is mild descent of the cervix, through to degree 4 which is whole cervix outside (I think). If you google "pelvic organ prolapse degree" you will find the medical definitions.

However, different doctors examining you with different amounts of food in your intestines, or on different days, or different parts of your menstrual cycle will probably come up with several different diagnoses.

Re the leaking, that is probably because your bladder is always squashed and the sphincters are having difficulty keeping closed. They get tired. Making your posture taller, and relaxing your lower abdomen will give your bladder a safe spot out the front, where it is not being pushed down your vagina and squashed. In this posture your pelvic floor will be stretched taut, and will reinforce the strength of the sphincter muscle around your urethra, so it is more tightly closed.

These improvements will not happen overnight because it takes time for the body to follow new instructions and the muscles to adjust. Give it a few weeks. Hopefully the sling will not get in the way. It is hard to tell. I don't know what they did during the surgery, and am not medically qualified to assess these things.

You can also put 'leaking' into the search box and see what other women have talked about.

What have you got to lose?

Louise

Do you have your uterus, Jett?

... I just assumed

Sarcasm? I’m not understanding this exchange, but want to say thank you, Louise, for all the time, care and concern you’ve given these thousands of women over the years! I love the openness of our exchanges and the kinds of women who are drawn to them. The ones who aren’t on our ray fall off eventually, which is best for all. You are a pure heart whom we love dearly!

Christine

I wonder about the angle between the bladder/urethra, and how the sling changes that? I think that makes it difficult to predict if these exercises would stop the leaking, though certainly you can try and see what happens. you've got nothing to lose.

and I think that someone who has already had prolapse surgery is probably better off with the wholewoman program than without it. but I also think that the results are more variable since each surgery and each body's reaction to surgery is different, and difficult to compare to natural anatomy without scarring, etc