Scared...HELP!!!

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Hey everyone!! I stumbled upon this site when I was googling uterine prolapse. I am freaking out!! I am VERY new to this discovery but I can feel my cervix with only inserting an inch inside. I am not necessarily feeling any pain. I am just very, very worried. I have given birth to two big babies and pushes very hard delivering them. I alos have suffered from constipation for a long time. When I do go to the bathroom it feels as though my cervix is being pushed out and I dont even have to insert to feel my cervix. Is this for sure a prolapse? I have an appt with a midwife this week. I am very natural now but wasnt always. My daughters were delivered at a hospital the "modern" way but if this is happening to me I really want to avoid the way the medical world would push me to go. I guess what I am coming to ask is.....where do I begin with being pro-active about this? I saw there is books and dvds but what do I begin with to stop this from progressing? Can I have any more children? Can I still be intimate with my husband? Sorry for all the questions for I am just totally lost and worried! Thanks in advance!!

Also, how do I learn about this WW posture? Is it only through the books? I want to begin doing ASAP...same with firebreathing and jiggling? Adding to the info about myself. I just finished nursing my daughter and she is 22 months. Would that cause my cervix to get so low or is definitely a prolapse?

Dear savedbygrace14,
Welcome!
OK - first relax - then start by going to the resources tab & watching Christine's videos.Practice the posture during the day, at all times - this will help your pelvic organs to move forward to the relaxed lower belly away from the vagina.
If you use the search box there is information on the forum about firebreathing & jiggling.
The womb does move around naturally, & straining on the loo doesn't help so you need to address constipation - plenty info on that if you use the search box. It is helpful to stop looking and checking your organs & concentrate on WWP.
You will be able to have more children & husbands don't generally notice our organs & sex just helps them to be pushed further in.
I hope this allays your fears & you can get started on your Whole Woman journey.
(((hugs))) &
Best wishes,
Aussie Soul Sister

Hi savedbygrace14,
Welcome to the WW community. I hope you find it as helpful as I did when I was discovered this site in a distraught state having discovered I had a pronounced uterine prolapse. yes - I think you have one. Rest assured the WW approach is the very best, safest and most natural approach for pelvic organ prolapse recovery and/or management.
Just to add some further comments: I agree with Assie Soul Sister, most men haven't a clue unless their partners tell them! Also intercourse with an erect penis is a wonderful tool for pushing up the cervix back above the pubic bone. So no worries there! You may want to look up posts re sex for further details.
There are basically things you can do to make things worse - and things you can do to make them better: You do less of one and more of the other. One of the things that makes things worse is constipation and straining whilst sitting down on the loo. Lean forward and place the weight of yr body on yr feet, kind of half standing or with thighs resting against the loo seat, whilst on the loo. If you have to strain strain whilst leaning fwd in this position. There's a lot more about t this in the book and other posts. Address yr constipation issue. Take control of it and reduce or stop it. I find stewed fruit on a daily, sometimes 3 x's a day, basis, works a treat for me. Find out what works for you. This is an important element towards improvement of symptoms.
Women with cervical prolpapse can also gently push it up, with a clean finger of course. I have a neat little routine of doing a standing forward bend for about 3 breaths, then pushing my cervix up, then standing up into WW posture with arms up and wide and then back into WW posture. When I'm symptomatic, I can do this every time I go to the loo.
The book is wonderful; a real resource full of information, advice and support. It's great for those women who like to know why. The dvd's are the practical manuals; they give you the visuals and verbal instructions re how to do the WW posture and the postures. I think of these resources as investments in my long term health. I follow the dvd's regularly. I like to have several so I have choice and variety. The money goes to a good cause too; Lanny and Christine's income and ability to continue this work. Some women build up their resources as/when they can.
I empathise with how yr feeling. However, I hope you'll find the support and treatment available here gives you hope and help.
Love and best wishes, wholewomanuk

Thank you so much for your responses! This is a very hard thing to get a grasp on. Its very upsetting but this site does give me hope. I am going to order some material asap. Hopefully I can find how to do the posture somewhere on the site so I can get started on that right away. Again, thank you for answering some of my questions!

Hi, savedbygrace! Please, try with aloe vera for your constipation problem. Open one leaf and get the fleshy jelly part out. Add to a glass of water and sip it throughout the day. You will see how much is too much, because it can cause really loose stools.

And here are the posture basics you look for: http://wholewoman.com/newpages/uterine.html

Best wishes, you are not alone in this, the site&forum is full of information and women ready to help you.

Dear Faustyna, welcome to the WWcommunity!!
Firstly I second Bebe's comment on your birth experience thread regarding your search for a better natural birth experience. Many thanks for sharing it so beautifully.

Secondly I will try the aloe vera suggestion as managing a rectocele can be unexpectedly variable sometimes in the "Chapel of Ease " as one of my friends called it... not always "easy".

Christine's exercise DVDs as a necessary adjunct to WWPosture really help also.
I do find a magnesium supplement, some wholegrain bread, a couple of prunes & as many vegetables as I can eat, + good fats, helpful most of the time .

I am lucky to have fresh aloe vera growing in my garden.
Best Wishes,
Aussie Soul Sister

Lucky you, Aussie Soul Sister, hope savedbygrace can also get some fresh aloe for her problem! it's really effective. So many people recommended me the foods you mentioned above for my constipation but nothing seemed to work! It was my second pregnancy when I found out about the trick with aloe and it solved my problem for really long. Some people recommend boiling flax seeds and drinking the jelly liquid but when pregnant or in excess it can alter the hormonal balance.

Thank you for your kind remark, Aussie:) You all make me feel very welcome!