New with lots of questions

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Hello. I am hoping for some direction on ordering. I am new to the program, but a PT friend of mine recommended I check this out. My questions are what should I order to get started and fully immerse myself in this program to receive the quickest and most intense results? I have 4 children now and all were born after the age of 35. :) I used to feel young, but UI doesn't help one to feel young! Old Momma... In fact, last baby was supposed to be menopause! But perio likes to play tricks on women's cycles! :) So, to the point.
I have been battling UI since after my third who is now 5. I truly thought it was a hormone imbalance as it is worse at certain times of month.
While I didn't think I had a diastasis recti after my last (who is now 20 months) I absolutely have now. If I am checking right it is over 4 fingers... but.
I also have scoliosis. (the wand actually looks therapeutic to me). I have an S and a twist in the upper.
I have noticed more pelvic organs out of place or lower than normal.
Lastly, I did something to my tailbone a few weeks ago. I have no idea how. I wonder if it isn't the back muscles pulling it out of alignment.
My PT friend has told me to do headlifts right now to help with the diastasis, no lifting (haha... that is the hardest part) and to see what I thought of WW.
I have not seen a dr. because with 4 kids who has time and mostly, I don't want to hear how I need surgery for a mesh. I want to exercise and be me!

So... What to order? UI program, Pelvic organ program, Yoga, the book with the wand? I just have no Idea. I am pretty sure the back manipulating wand is in my future though.
Thank you so much for your input.

Hi cherylp and welcome. Good for your PT. Rarely does anyone in the medical profession know enough to recommend WW, so you have struck it rich in that department.

Yes I know, there is quite an array of materials available in the store. UI, DR, prolapse, hip and back issues, they all come down to posture. So just take a look and see what resonates. There are wonderful bundles of all sizes if your budget allows (best way to get the baton, which indeed you will love). I'm partial to the book and First Aid for Prolapse DVD, because that's how I got started with the basics; but so much has been added. I have since acquired every program and each one adds something to my store of knowledge and understanding.

If at this point in time, UI is the main issue you are struggling with, then you will love the information and the workout in the on-line course for Urinary Incontinence. Immersion is the key, as you pointed out! Not easy with 4 kiddies, but the great thing about mastering posture is that you are doing it all day long. No need to carve out the time.

I hope that others will share what helped them the most when they were starting out. - Surviving

Hi Cherylp,
Now that you have found us it's time to take a deep breath and really have a look around at Christine's work and what it can do for you. Her methods are not a fast track exercise program, but a more methodical approach that will help you restore your body back to its original place and the posture you were always meant to have. We had this posture as children, but it has been lost to us with all the soft furniture and suck and tuck methods of modern society, putting us in this situation of prolapse.

You may want to also look into the WW postpartum bundle, because it has all of Christine's original materials to get you started, and the second wheel yoga DVD for our mothers, although we all can benefit from this great DVD, and the goddess belly DVD that covers the diastasis recti and what you can actually do about it.

Have a good look around and welcome to your journey with whole woman.

PS... SO... I also forgot to mention that I already have a tilted pelvis as the OB's diagnose, I have been struggling for years to keep it upright :) .... But perhaps I have the normal pelvis and need to relax into it and not fight it! :)
:)

Sounds like another gem of wisdom from the medical professionals, huh? So which way is it "tilted" and how have you been trying to compensate? If you've been tucking your butt and sucking in your belly - I hope you've stopped that harmful practice - that's step #1 of the WW work. - Surviving

It is an anterior pelvic tilt. So it is tilted forward...butt sticking out and tummy slightly protruding ;) . Absolutely, I have gotten to the point now where I stopped trying to tuck it. I now realize my buttocks were clenching to try to keep the tuck and are now relaxing, it is interesting. So, now to control the tilt and not just let it flop totally forward. I do see where if lifting up the chest, extending up through the neck and tucking the chin, you definitely are not just flopping it out there, but controlling it. It feels similar to ballerina days and I am tempted to walk as a we did in rehearsal. My back gets tired though. Always has. Just need to strengthen all around. But first to correcting the diastasis recti. Thank you for your help and input.

The relaxed belly does not flop forward in Whole Woman posture. The chest is strongly lifted and this combo creates the lovely lumbar curvature that supports the organs. I don't think it's helpful to think of "controlling the tilt" - that tends to make you tighten up somewhere. -- Surviving

PS: Hey! Be sure to check out Christine's latest blog post, for some perspective on that tilted-pelvis "diagnosis" you received.