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I was wondering, I have read that

Hi LADodson1

Here is my description that I posted as part of another post. There are many women who are looking for solutions to this problem on this Forum. 'Constipation' and 'splintng' are good keywords to put into the Search box to find them. You will find references to splinting, and a lot of dietary ideas, though no doubt you have experienced many of these with a lifelong condition.

"I sometimes use the finger in the vagina trick (sometimes referred to as 'splinting' I believe?) just to push the rectocele back to what I imagine is in line with the rest of the bowel. I have to do it much less often these days, but it is very effective. Just be gentle, as you don't want to push it too far out of line the other direction

Actually I meant to type "thumb" rather than finger. I find that it is pretty easy to use the big fat, flat part of the thumb.

The most important part of it though, has been to amend my posture so that the bowel doesn't seem to kink back on itself quite so much, and the bladder and uterus are not pressing back on the bowel, rather flopping more forwards over the pubic bone. So the problem doesn't happen so much these days. Hope this helps.

Cheers

Louise

ps To get women's opinions of the surgery you will need to post exactly the type of surgery the doctor plans to do, then wait and see if anybody has had the same surgery. There are a few different procedures I think. L

My Mother has had a rectocele for many years. Last year she got a pessary ring and she has found it wonderful.

I have read up on the surgeries and to be honest I have not read anything that makes me wanna have it (I have a rectocele grade1)

I think you ned to 'attack' the reasons why you are constipated (are you drinking enough etc) I find with my daughter that pure unsweetened orange juice usually helps tons to soften stools

The posture should take the pressure off and the dragging feeling should lessen.

Sue

hi LADodson1:

as louise already said, since you've been struggling with constipation your whole life, you are probably already familiar with the suggestions, but there is a long thread in the food forum that i started about constipation. you might want to look, though, again, i suspect you've tried most those things. (though this might be off the beaten track, but the castor oil packs might be REALLY helpful. just a thought.)

i hope you get the feedback you're looking for. it sounds like big surgery so i can see why you'd want to get input from women who have been through it. seems really prudent of you.

best of luck to you and congrats on your adoption!

xsusan